If a guy opens the door for you like pauses and opens the door when you happen to encounter an entrance same time, is this a sign of attraction? ?

[Prairie_Flow3r]

I'm 23 (f) and the guy I'm talking about is also 23, but we're not friends, we're just in the same college class.

[_Maya_]

If a guy is chivalroustowards a female, like they approach the same entrance, he pauses and gestures that she should go first, is he attracted to her?

No it does not as I already said the last time you asked. You seem to have some hangup that it means something and just searching for affirmation and not willing to take no for an answer since that was pretty much the consensus. I'll give you the same answer I did last time.

"No that doesn't mean that he is attracted to you. That means he has good manners and is polite. If he doesn't make a point to talk to you yet still opens doors or allows you to enter first it just means he is a polite guy and nothing more. I am guessing he does that for anyone. How would you know otherwise unless you stalk him and watch him interact with other women? Don't take it to mean anything and honestly don't over analyze these small gestures that people do. Just because your local barista gives you a smile and an extra cocktail napkin for your coffee doesn't mean he is into you either. It just means some people put extra effort into being nice to others and this is no different."

[WellBye]

You weirdoz should stop to analyze every little thing they did. Not everything is a puzzle waiting to be solved.

[Anonymous]

It could be. But a lot of times, especially older men or young men who have been taught to be polite are doing just that. A lot of men are just polite in general to the general population whether for a male or female. It’s possible he may like you. Men tend to do things for pretty women. He may just want to check you out from behind as well so he lets you go first. Even if there’s an attraction there, couldn’t say on what way. Simply sexual or for a potential relationship. But you haven’t said much to indicate more than him just being polite.

[SteveSmith1985]

No. This doesn't sound like a sign of attraction. That just sounds like a guy being a gentleman. I don't think he held the door because it was you, specifically, who happened to be there.

That's not to say that this guy isn't attracted to you. Just that this door incident isn't a sign of attraction.

However, there are all kinds of tiny little things (looks, smiles, body language, vibe etc) that can be part of a shared moment which indicate attraction. Only you know whether the moment with the door had any of those little indicators.

[spartan55]

You are seriously reaching. If you like him then TALK to him.

[Staximus]

I don't know where you're from, but where I'm from that's called common courtesy

[sirderpsalot123]

No .

[jahaims]

Not at all