1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I am going to assume the question is not solely rhetorical.
Evolution has merely built new brain layers of top of old brain layers. Our (incl lesbians) most primitive brain layers look exactly like reptilian brains and it is often referred to as the reptilian brain. Above that we have mammalian brain layers. and above that there is the neocortex. Our conscious brain is mostly in the neocortex and our unconscious brain is mostly in the other two layers and that is where our instincts are hardwired also.
Sex is deeply instinctive; reptiles fuck, mammals fuck. Everyone has experienced instinctive responses. The most common one is jumping at car brakes squealing. Maybe you are talking intently with a companion and you jump at the sound because your neocortex is fully engaged on the conversation and doesn't filter.
I have instinctive sexual responses. I can be walking down the street with my neocortex fully engaged on my finances. Suddenly I find I have an erection. A cute desirable girl has passed by. Clearly an instinctive sex response to said cute girl.
Just as with squealing brakes, my neocortex kicks in. So I don't run down the bestower of my erection.
But there are times when the unconscious/reptilian brain takes total control and that is where the fun stops. I have experienced this and can best describe it as being in rut..
As for why Lesbians can control well it is pretty clear their brains are wired a little different.
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4.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Plenty of lesbians can't control themselves.
I have friends who are lesbians. I have customers who are lesbians. I've heard lots of stories from them - stories I didn't ask for. And while I'm not suggesting that every lesbian is a sexual assaulter, it's a lot more common than you're implying.
The bottom line is that there are plenty of people who aren't taught to regulate their desires as children - hell, just kids who are never even told "no" - and so these people - male and female both - just do whatever the hell they want to do if they think they can get away with it. And it's just as wrong no matter who it is.
It's disingenuous to imply that it's only men who do this.
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What do you expect from a 16 year old?
- Anonymous(18-24)17 d
I'm a lesbian. There are more lesbian women out there that can't control themselves compared to straight men. There's more domestic abuse in lesbian relationships, more false allegations, more cheating, more stalking etc. That's why I gave up on girls and started dating guys. Women are too much hard work and there's too much drama. Men are so easy.
221 Reply- Opinion Owner17 d
Some women will just not take no for an answer especially older women in a position of power like a teacher or boss.
- 17 d
then u werent ever a lesbian, troll.
- Opinion Owner17 d
What makes me not a lesbian? I've had women grope me, I think so many women act badly because they don't think there will be consequences
- 17 d
u think js bc a woman groped u ur a lesbian?💀
- Opinion Owner17 d
@Agape93 my last girlfriend was married to a man for 10 years before she came out as gay. She wasn't exclusively with women. How about all those sex workers who are lesbians but have sex with men for money?
- 17 d
then they’re not lesbian? have u ever heard of lying?
- Opinion Owner17 d
No because I'm only sexually attracted to women and have dated other women.
- 17 d
so why r u dating men, who u dont even like?
- Opinion Owner17 d
Historically lesbian women just got married and had kids to a husband. Maybe they had a "friend" who visited for tea while their husband was at work. Wasn't that long ago that doctors were treating women for female hysteria which involved the doctor rubbing the patient's Clitoris until orgasm, unthinkable now.
- 17 d
okay? well that was bc it was illegal to be lesbian and they would’ve probably been killed or sent to jail. its legal now? u dont need to hide it?
- Opinion Owner17 d
You don't need to hide but plenty of lesbian women still choose to marry husbands and have kids knowing they like girls.
- Opinion Owner17 d
In the past out lesbian women were either ignored or sent to an insane asylum.
- Opinion Owner17 d
@Agape93 who said anything about being into men. You don't have to be a straight woman to be with a man, lesbians have been with men since the dawn of civilisation
- 17 d
Yeah, that's because back then they had no choice. If you are into men and women, you're bisexual. Period.
"That's why I gave up on girls and started dating guys."
So either you're into both or you're a lesbian and too fucking lazy to put in the work, and so you deceive guys into letting them think you're actually into them. Which is it? - Opinion Owner17 d
@Agape93 the second one but not lazy. I really sympathise with what a lot guys go through. Like my last ex told me her ex boyfriend was an abusive monster, 3 months later I realised everything she told me about her ex boyfriend was a lie and she was the monster after a black eye and bust lip and then she went to the police claiming I had attacked her. I dated other women too and the drama and cheating was unbelievable
- Opinion Owner13 d
@Agape93 exactly. I've great sympathy for Hetrosexual guys having dated women, never again.
- 12 d
I agree with you. Reminds me of Bill Burr saying the same thing, how horrible lesbian tops/ doms are. And gay guys are always so chill with each other. I hope your guy treats you better than your bitch exs did.
- Opinion Owner11 d
@QuestionObsession true. The surgery on my nose testifies to this.
- Anonymous(25-29)18 d
One sexually assaulted me when I was 11 so no they can't control themselves...
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@Agape93 It's ok it happened many years ago but this just proves woman or man everyone do it, if they see themselves as the dominant one then there's no stoping them no matter if man or woman, it's more a matters of personality than gender
- Opinion Owner15 d
@Agape93 You made me afraid by the start of your comment, well men or women both do it also there's lots of abuse we don't know about becuase men don't see it as such or report it too.
To be honest after all the stuff I heard about it saying it it's worse than dying it did not feel as bad if I can say, it was not pleasant for sure but still not to the point of wanting to die or other, it's just displeasing, bad moment to pass but once it's done then well I can't say it traumatized me either. - 12 d
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@Agape93 Now you know why Indian guys treat you so good, because of your shitty attitude ;-)
On my post you are talking shit about Indian guys and here you are being a horrible bully to a poor woman who is saying she is a lesbian and you are attacking her. Shitty attitude through and through LOL - Opinion Owner12 d
@Agape93 Now I distrust women, same ways some women distrust men but men have always been nice to me.
- Opinion Owner11 d
@Agape93 Make sense and I'm straight so I rather be around men anyway








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- 18 d
lesbians don't have as much testosterone and apparently they aren't as narcissistic as some.
Lesbians cannot impregnate you though, that's a fact jack!
111 Reply- 17 d
so ur one of those who can't control urself?
- 17 d
Some lesbians are hot !!!
- 17 d
I controlled myself well. but there is no way around the natural realituy that guys want to go towards girls as the hormones rage. some guys have more testosterone.
- 17 d
testosterone is never an excuse for rape.
- 17 d
no it's not. the biggest cause of rape is... wait for it... drum roll...
alcohol! other drugs!
The other primary cause is very bad decisions. I'll let you make the list of all reasons.
If you look around at nature though... those poor female birds get hounded by males. don't get started with ducks, dogs or cats. omg.
should we be locking up our male cats? Yes I say! they ain't drunk, they are female crazy.
- 17 d
the other issue of course is sick guys that will abuse another person... selfish, emotional sick, narcissistic and controlling. those ones need dealt with. it's unfortunate they get to walk around and get away with stuff in life.
- 17 d
yeah sadly. and people will still say men have it harder in life.
- 17 d
Who says it is?
- 16 d
men.
- 15 d
Yes some do... because they are selfish or not thinking. It's a little of both, I think rather than compare it's important to recognize the challenge of the other and have compassion, empathy and understanding. That's a healtheir viewpoint.
- 15 d
no shit
its not that we can’t control ourselves its because we have so much testosterone. A woman did a test and gained a lot of testosterone to see whats it like being a man. And she said she understands now, she said she wanted sex so much that if she had the level of testosterone that men had she would be pregnant multiple times.
you got to ask yourself are lesbian really interested in women or are they just exercising their ability to choose and then tricking themselves to believe they want the relationship.
cause I’ll tell you right now. We are not confused as men when it comes to liking women. I love the female body
00 ReplyLesbian doesn't mean ANYTHİNG.
Do you have a male body?
Do you have a penis?
Do you have an enlarged Side in your brain that is about sex?
Do you have the amount of testosterone we produce?
No? Then please don't compare straight guys and lesbians, we are nothing alike.
18 Reply- 13 d
why would it matter?
- 13 d
testosterone has nothing to do with rape, u CHOOSE to rape someone no testosterone has anything to do with it
- 13 d
omfg. r u dumb? its pretty fucking obvious its about rape and everyone else seem to get it, seems like ur problem.
no. u chose to rape somebody. u dont lose control. - 13 d
Why do you attack me here? İ am not defending rape or such shit, i got that the question was about rape but it is not what i am answering here, i answer why it is different with guys and lesbians, i am not a rapist so i can only guess that causing another people such pain lookes worthed for their pleasure. Like i said, i was answering why it is different with lesbians and hetero guys not the why rape question.
- 13 d
u are tho. saying testosterone is why men rape.
- 13 d
Dude you are purposefully trying to pick a fight here, i am NOT SAYİNG THAT, i am just telling the difference between Man and lesbian woman here, you are purposefully trying to accuse me of things, i'm sorry if you are a victim but i wasn't the one that raped you go attack him not me.
- 11 d
I've never been raped, im js saying
- 17 d
Seems like we stumbled upon another one of the wokemob's contradictory thought experiments. If we follow your logic, being a lesbian supposedly demonstrates self-control around individuals of a certain gender. However, that's a stretch considering that according to them, they can't help being attracted to other women in the first place.
00 Reply - 17 d
People who say that are making excuses. They can control themselves they just choose not to. Same with female predators. People like to excuse and justify their actions because they can’t face accountability
00 Reply - 18 d
Who says lesbians can control themselves? In the right situation, anyone, male or female, can lose control.
28 Reply- 17 d
sure but men do it a lot more
- 17 d
@chocolatetwopointo Would you mind providing some evidence of that?
- 17 d
r u dumb? do i seriously need to show u a source for u to understand that men rape more?
- 17 d
@chocolatetwopointo Are you not aware of the female teachers who have sex with their students?
- 17 d
and r u aware of the male teachers who rape and groom their students?
- 17 d
u seriously think more female teachers rape than males in general? bro. fkn retarded man.
- 17 d
@chocolatetwopointo For your personal attacks and crude language, in violation if GaG rules, you are being blocked. If that's what you wanted, congratulations. Maybe as you get older, you'll realize that proper communication is a good thing, and your anger at the world might subside.
- 17 d
old ass
Men are men, lesbians are still women.. therefore, their brains are wired differently. Men have a much more stronger desire to chase, because we are naturally programmed to reproduce, unlike a lesbian who don’t have near as much testosterone.
06 Reply- 16 d
not an excuse for rape
- 16 d
r u fucking dumb? what did u think it was ab then?
- 16 d
its pretty obvious? answer my other question
- 18 d
Well typo aside men who can't control themselves are just making excuses for what they know is wrong.
03 Reply- 18 d
what typo? thats my point.
- 17 d
ah okay
302 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Do you understand that you compare a lesbian woman with a hetero guy? We aren't the same that why we have separate toilets
01 Reply- 17 d
ok and?
- 4 d
I don't think women have as strong of a sex drive as a guy does. For example when I was in school, I heard guys talking about sex all the time. The girls not as much.
03 Replyso men r horny sex animals? got it
- 4 d
It varies with hormone levels. Younger guys tend to have stronger sex drives. Older guys it slows down some. One woman on youtube testified by saying this: She dated 20 year olds, and 40 year olds. She said that 20 year olds really wanted sex. The 40 year olds just wanted to talk. That was her experience. I know that the 40 year olds want sex too but it isn't as high on the list due to age and life experiences.
so u js explained what i js said?
I think it locker room mentally and schoolyard. They BS with their friends. And as for those in LGBTQ community are already marginalized. SA make it worst. Though they are some Aggressive people.
21 Reply1.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Well, all I can say is, those men should be in prison. If you can't control yourself you don't deserve liberty.
01 Reply- 17 d
no shit
569 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Because society is a repressive prison men are forces to spend all their time in.
All men's outlets were taken away from them, "boys clubs are sexist."02 Reply- 16 d
so u should be able to rape women?
- 17 d
Who says all lesbians control themselves. That is beyond incorrect. Statistics tell that 44% of lesbian women experience sexual assault, stalking, abuse etc by "intimate partners".
00 Reply - 18 d
Men who say they couldn’t control are just making an excuse… if they cannot control themselves then better they die… it’s always a choice to do something ir not..
10 Reply Um... some men can. The bulking of putting all men together is stupid. Most men don't see a girl and lose control and run to the restroom to masturbate, lol.
01 Replybased on the amount of men who actually do it, its hard to believe its js ”some”
- 16 d
Why are you comparing lesbians with men? Lesbians are women. Men are men. Lesbians don’t have a penis, so why would you compare them to men? Smfh. Stupid child. Embarrassing yourself yet again
011 Reply- 16 d
so js bc men have a penis they should have the right to rape?
- 16 d
When did I say that?
- 16 d
js now
- 16 d
Okay. Your immaturity is showing again
- 15 d
how?
- 15 d
Really? Are you stupid? You just accused me of saying something that I never said
- 13 d
u basically said it tho
- 13 d
No, actually I basically didn’t. That’s a subjective truth, not an objective one. Learn the difference kiddo
- 13 d
it is tho. how does having a penis make it more likely to be a rapist?
- 13 d
You’re just running around like a chicken with its head cut off at this point…. Looks like I won this argument. Better luck next time kiddo
- 13 d
so ur gna avoid the question? as always
- Anonymous(45 Plus)18 d
Why can men control their emotions but women can’t?
02 Reply- 17 d
What? Is anger not an emotion now?
- 17 d
they can't tho? men punch walls and their partners when their favourite team loses in football.
- 12 d
Because lesbians are not men and men are not lesbians. There is no comparison kid.
047 Reply- 11 d
both r attracted to the same thing🤷♀️
- 11 d
One has a cock and the other a pussy. Not the same thing at all
- 11 d
so? js bc u have a cock u need to rape a woman?
- 11 d
As far as I can recall, I have never raped anyone. And rapes happen with men too. Women who are hostile and aggressive rape weaker men all the time. Most hen-pecked marriages are of weak men who are dominated by their controlling and bullying wives who rape them too.
- 11 d
men rape more, and thats my point. but men can't stop trying to make themselves the victim can they.
- 11 d
It is not about who rapes more. A rape is a rape. Nothing to do with gender.
- 11 d
yet men do it significantly more.
- 11 d
A lot of things happen for men way more than they do for women. Men lose half their wealth to women in divorces. You don't see a problem with that I bet.
- 11 d
yes bc that will never happen to me, if u care so much, why dont u do smth ab it?
- 11 d
Because that will never happen to me either.
- 11 d
ok good 4 u, why so worried ab it then?
- 11 d
I am not. I was just telling you that rapes happening to women although terrible, is not as common as divorce settlements that men have to suffer.
- 11 d
womp womp, dont marry such women then🤷♀️
- 11 d
I certainly won't
- 11 d
tell that to the other men
- 11 d
They are not my problem
- 11 d
so why r u worried ab it?💀
- 11 d
I am not. Apparently you are
- 11 d
nice
- 11 d
Is it?
- 11 d
i dont really care
- 11 d
Me neither little shit
- 11 d
sensetive
- 11 d
Only in the right places
- 11 d
mhmm
- 11 d
Yep..
- 10 d
yup…
- 10 d
Ssup?
- 10 d
idk🤷♀️
- 10 d
You good?
- 10 d
yupp
- 10 d
At what?
- 10 d
some things
- 10 d
Name 3
- 10 d
sleeping, eating and watching tv
- 10 d
No gaming?
- 10 d
no im not a nerd
- 10 d
Then what are you?
- 10 d
not a nerd?
- 10 d
A reader then?
- 10 d
nope
- 10 d
Art and craft?
- 10 d
nahh
- 10 d
What are your damn hobbies then besides TV?
- 10 d
why the fuck do u care, leave me alone
- 10 d
I don't care, I am just being nice. Stop replying if you want to be left alone
- 10 d
kk bye
1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Do you see a lot of men dragging women into the bushes? The vast majority do control themselves.
00 Reply- 16 d
Can they? Lesbians have an incredibly high rate of domestic violence.
07 Reply- 16 d
im not talking ab in relatiobships
- 16 d
What makes it any different? Violence is violence
- 16 d
as i said. im not talking about in relationships, am i?
- 16 d
You are talking about violence though?
- 16 d
nope, rape outside of relationships. not hard to understand
- 16 d
Rape is violence though?
- 16 d
part of it, but im talking rape ONLY
- 17 d
Lesbian*
At least spellcheck your title.
013 Reply- 16 d
i missclicked? why are men so emotional?
- 16 d
misclicked*
It seems like you've learnt nothing. - 16 d
English isn't my first language, and again, its ONE letter, men r so emotional
- 16 d
it's*
English doesn't have to be your first language for you to write it well. Presentation makes a lasting impression. - 16 d
bro. if ur this picky u might as well get off this app
- 16 d
No reason to—I’m just correcting your spelling to help you improve your writing. There’s nothing bad about that.
- 16 d
ill keep writing like this bc i dont fucking care. im not in an English speaking country so i have no use for it anyways.
- 16 d
If you say so. Just remember, if you want people to take you seriously, you'll need to make a good impression—maybe not here, but elsewhere.
- 16 d
idgaf
- 16 d
You will—once you grow up and take responsibility for yourself.
- 16 d
yeah no
- 16 d
Okay, kid.
- 16 d
yupp
1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I've had to throw women out of the bar for groping other women
011 Reply- 17 d
and how many men have u had to thrown out?
- 17 d
mhmm
- 17 d
mhm right
- 16 d
rightt
- 16 d
lmao
- 12 d
Oh, we can. Not always looking, but how we behave, absolutely
02 Reply- 11 d
say that to the millions of rapists
- 11 d
Yeah, that’s why they’re criminals
- 17 d
Fair point but control is something everyone should have if they're raised right and have an ounce of decency in them.
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Oh... you are one of those who block someone if they look the wrong way.
02 Reply- 17 d
i block anyone
- Opinion Owner17 d
Obviously
- 16 d
Because men were created with just enough blood to run one head at a time.
00 Reply - 17 d
they're about the same
09 Reply- 17 d
men rape more than lesbians.
- 17 d
a lesbian never rapes
- 17 d
says who?
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1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Because lesbians actually try and care.
04 Reply- 18 d
they dont need to try, its not in ur blood to rape someone
- 16 d
@chocolatetwopointo ignore mongo, he's just a dick that pretends to be smarter than he actually is.
Insufferable cat lady
020 Reply- 17 d
so u think raping women should be okay?
- 16 d
what?
- 16 d
i asked what. why do u think rape should be normalized. how many have u raped?
- 16 d
answer the questions.
- 16 d
questions, plural. retard.
- 16 d
omfg. WHY DO YOU THINK RAPE SHOULD BE NORMALIZED?
- 16 d
u being retarded makes me upset. answer now.
- 16 d
the fact u said ur a rapists to piss off a 16 yr old is crazy. get help. u dont joke ab shit like that u retarded fuck.
- 16 d
ur 43. and u joke about rape. god i hate men.
- 16 d
ur 43 years old. its never funny to joke about rape. if it happened to ur daughter? what would u do?
A boner burns like fire 🔥
08 Reply- 15 d
it’ll burn more when i break it off in 2
- 13 d
not when i cut it
- 12 d
ok good
- 11 d
good 4 u
- 18 d
Why should I control?
06 Reply- 18 d
oh so u are a rapist?
- 18 d
r u fucking kidding me?
- 18 d
reported.
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@GirlsAskGuys
This is the shit you allow on here?
- 18 d
Some men are, well, pigs !!!
10 Reply 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. It is the caveman brain...
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hormones
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