If a guy constantly checks out and lock eyes with a same girl, whilst he has a girlfriend is this a red flag or just flirty behaviour?

[Anonymous]

Acceptable or unacceptable? Not just now and then, but regularly with the same girl.. what does it mean?

[jahaims]

Flirting with others while in a relationship is red flag behavior because that's cheating obviously. He might just be looking and is piggish about it.

[Asker]

Yeah I know what you mean. But even if looking, it’s on a regularl basis.. would you say that crossing the line or not really? Does it mean he actually likes the another girl?

[spartan55]

It means he is looking at her.

[In_Trance]

Red flag

[Asker]

You think he wants the other girl? Why’s he with the girlfriend?

[In_Trance]

Which role are you playing in this scenario?

[Asker]

I’m the other girl.

[In_Trance]

So imagine if this was your boyfriend fucking eyes with another girl. Would that concern you at all?

[Asker]

Yeah I would be totally hurt by that. I don’t think it’s right at all and really don’t get why he does it?

[In_Trance]

Because you're letting him.
Block him and it'll stop