Does anyone else feel the need to look out for the good men in our lives against some of the toxic evil women we know are our there?

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Good men for all their strength, bravery, recklessness etc are actually quite brittle and vulnerable. Despite what the media and society will tell you women can be equally as bad as the evilest man the difference being that too often their are zero consequences for their evil deeds.

Shiprex · Accepted Answer

It gets pretty tiring when men hear the same story that THEY are doing life all wrong.

It's WRONG to process life without broadcasting or sharing or venting or basically reliving EVERY SITUATION so others can vicariously live your life struggles through your words. It's BAD to not show emotions because they people think you don't care and treat you coldly because that's THEIR take on YOU. It's BAD that you "bottle it up" when in fact we're dealing with it OURSELVES as men have done forever and guess what? We're doing it better than women who have to express and emote EVERYTHING all the time sharing the emotional rollercoaster of life THEY want the world to "suffer", experience or empathise with.

Well, here's a wee ditty of thought provoking logic for you.

Men tend to experience life and sense it in the ways of hearing seeing, smelling, feeling (touch) and even tasting, in similar ways to women with obvious different individual perspectives. Men have emotions that are brought on just like women do that create positive and negative sensations in them thanks to hormones and our brains processing them into memories. And sometimes STRESS (a killer) is caused as a result of these experiences.

Now, in general, men tend to NOT relive these experiences with others by emoting, venting or letting off about them while women do. Men do it because they don't want to BURDEN others with their thoughts and or process them into manageable memories of wisdom while women will use others as sounding boards in order to conclude and process them. Ask yourself who SUFFERS most easily, deeply and for longest. Men or women?

Yes the therapy and mental health drug industry want us ALL to be popping down to the fast therapy store to get our 45 min session weekly then pop the pills they need to keep their shareholders in good stead.

So, getting men to become male girlfriends, ladies and gents is NOT where we should be going. Turning pathetic princesses into competent courtesans may be a wiser way forward but I guess the world won't listen to logic when the message is masculinity is bad.

CalmUntilAbused · Accepted Answer

Well... While I do agree with most of Your view on this matter, I'm not sure if "looking out" is the way I want to think about it. As a man, I'm supposed to be a warrior and I'm fine with it. If a woman does not actively harm me, she's already friendly enough (yeah, I guess the bar is in hell). If a woman takes care of my mental vulnerabilities in a positive way, She's proper wife material. If a woman supports me from behind the scenes beyond basic care for my mental fortitude, She's absolute wife material and I'm willing to kill for Her if necessary, especially if She actually marries me (which basically sums up how it used to be in the glorious past).

So... Yeah... I'd feel like I'm needy (a terrible trait for a man) if I required to be looked out for. I do wish for some support, but I only feel kind of entitled to it (only as long as I am capable of providing support as well, and preferably some incredibly valuable support) with friends and family. But I would feel like a failure if I needed looking out for in a kind of "taking care of a child" way.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I am on the side of the men. These weaponized feminatzi women need to go and live on a remote island somewhere far from society and commune amongst themselves. Period.

Babebytheshore85 · Accepted Answer

You have too much time on your hands lol 😆. Lay off the red pill content and get some therapy

loverguy123123123 · Answer

I do think good people should look out for one another but unfortunately there are some people who simply don’t want to hear it and no matter what you tell them they will learn the hard way. Some people will even hate the opposite sex but that’s on them.

Many men and many women are good unfortunately many are skilled manipulators who can pretend to be anything they think you want them to be until one day you’re stuck living with them before you see their true colors.

I feel sorry for men who are in these situations but a lot of them don’t want to see it, they are too embarrassed to admit it to themselves, or anyone else the truth. So they stick their heads in the sand and pretend like everything is fine when it’s not.

A lot of times a evil woman is the downfall of a genuinely good man. You see these men who are brave strong and everything else become a shell of who they once were. Yet you also see men who were a shell you see a woman just bring his true colors out. Don’t get me wrong there is men too who want the sympathy and pity but will never change because they don’t genuinely want it. Good women also fall to evil men as well and vice versa where they become better.

A lot of people in romantic situations who are narcissistic at best can’t form genuine relationships so they manipulate someone else who can to get what they want. It can be sexual, financial, social status, or really anything else you can think of that someone would want to use someone for. They want to feel safe, secure, they want a escape, they want to have kids, the list goes on. Many men fall for it and end up in horrible marriages.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Nah, we don't need looking after. We men are pretty resourceful and resilient. We don't break easily. I'd argue men need to run into some toxic women in their life to learn the hard lesson that the image of women society sells of sweet, delicate, little flowers who would NEVER lie, cheat, steal, or manipulate to get what they want is complete bullshit.

Women are complex human beings just like men. At some point in his life, a man needs to learn this and see women as they are rather than some idealized fantasy. Women come with a range of personalities and character traits just like men. It's important for both genders to develop a healthy amount of skepticism and learn to identify the bad actors and their bullshit.

Protecting people only prevents them from developing a reality based view of the world. Pain is not necessarily your enemy. And no one is going to be there to protect you every moment of your life. A little self sufficiency is a much better tool.

Bricealan · Answer

@gwendoline I have know BOTH, Gwendoline, but I have to say that, in my experience, men can be more the ASSHOLE TYPE than women! True, some women can be shitheads, but men have the inherent capacity to do more evil shit, AND SAY more evil shit to others than, women.

I side with women with regard to your question

QuestionObsession · Answer

Very true. Women have the power to manipulate men's mind. It is biological programming that they weild. A survival instinct that will stop at nothing and will keep taking and taking and taking. Attention, compliments, praise, gifts... anything that feeds her primitive need for validation and competition with other women. And men who give them that are prey to their own weak minds. Man's biological programming is to pursue and seek out a mate, which makes him vulnerable to the manipulation that the woman weilds.

Intelligence is a curse as much as it is a blessing. Intelligence ought to help us separate our primitive programming from our higher facilities but it seldom does. Because we are not taught to develop that intelligence fully and are kept prisoners to the primitive programming.

That is why most intelligent men and women are single. Because they have risen above the majority of primitively programmed people.

WonderingManII · Answer

I found a woman on youtube that is speaking out about this. I think we guys do need women looking out after us. We also need to look out after women. The thing is, what men are good at, women are not as good at. What women are good at, men are not as good at. That is why it is good to have a life partner. <3

Anonymous · Answer

There are a lot of evil women out there like the stepmother who held her stepson captive since age of 3 all the way up to 20-30. Like that boy/man didn’t deserve that.

Evil takes all forms, not just men though will admit a lot of them are men though doesn’t mean there aren’t good men. Good takes on all forms too.

spartan55 · Answer

Most guys aren't brain dead dimwits. To say any adult needs to be 'looked after' is sort of condescending and insulting.

PaleDale · Answer

I've been attracted to toxic women but I control myself and keep my distance.

thegreenyogi · Answer

I'm that way especially with male friends.

RavVid · Answer

Well thank you.

worldscolide · Answer

For my male friends and future sons yes.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I look out for my friends

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I like the way you think

dougeats · Answer

Thanks for looking out for me in advance

larry69 · Answer

No because men have brought this on themselves!!

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