Why would a grown man get a hard on after hugging me?

[Anonymous]

So we're both 31 years old and have been friends for months. There's never been any signs of attraction from either of us until recently. We usually hang out with other friends but recently hung out together solo. Well we both know now there's definitely chemistry. Anyways, last night I sent him a message telling him that I was not expecting him to sleep with me I am not ready for that but I felt like he was avoiding me. We made plans and didn't happen because things kept happening whatever. So this morning he came over woke me up apologizing and said he was sorry and told me what happened but also told me that he wasn't avoiding me. He gave me an amazing hug and walked away but said I can't face you right now. He laughed so hard and said wow that hug just gave me a hard on!

What could this situation mean?

[ProbablyClueless]

Chemistry is chemistry; that's pretty tough to deny when someone you feel chemistry with is pressed against you.

Beyond that, boners kinda happen whenever they feel like happening. There isn't usually much rhyme or reason.

[Shiprex]

Your waking up head and face is so hot that he wanted to bring on the good news right there and then

[Nikki1989]

31 doesn't always mean mature, especially with men.

[spartan55]

You're 30 and you don't know what that means? You have no business dating.

[bowenw]

He obviously finds you hot and got turned-on by the hug.

[Alex-Snow]

Guys get boners for any number of reasons. Take it as a compliment

[Pterodon]

Because he wanted to fuck you. This isn’t rocket science

[236color]

We don't really have control overs it

[Orion84]

He's attracted to you, obviously.

[Blueeyes81]

Go back and take health class again.

[Anonymous]

He likes you.