To The Married Guys and Just Guys in General. If your wife was messaging 3+? single men on this website, for years what would you think 🤔 about that?

[sage2021]

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11 mo

What do you think about the 3 guys messaging her? They know that she's married. I just have to wonder 🤔 what is it about her why she requires 4 men in her life for emotional support? Plus the fact that it's emotional cheating and it doesn't seem to bother her or the guys. I feel sorry for her husband. He sounds clueless huh?

[Finchie40]

I would assume she really didn’t love me or value me if she was investing so much time into these other
Guys’ and I would probably leave her and find a girl that values me like I value her that doesn’t need emotional support from other men. If a girl can’t wear my shoes the same way she expects me to wear hers , she isn’t the girl for me period , she is just a piece of ass if that

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't want her on this site, and I want to get off as soon as possible.

[NathanDavis]

if someone has been keeping in touch that often for that long... it means they do get along, friendships are the most normal thing ever for most people...

you didn't go into details about what kind of "communication and dynamics" do exist with these people, but...

most of exes and most of my friends already had friends of their own when I met, and so do I...

I do not tend to assume the worst of people by default... so, instead of "thinking about it" on my own and just assume things... if I am bothered by something I will communicate with her about it, and we will talk about it...

[LiamJHayden]

It would depend upon the content. We have people who are knowledgeable about the law, sciences, languages, music, etc. and if it were in those areas, fine. To flirt? I'd dump her immediately upon discovery.

[sage2021]

@JimJHayden
No, it's more for emotional support to help keep her marriage. It's weird to me!😕
I can't imagine being married and messaging 3+? guys on GaG for years and having them help me with my marital problems.
But whatever!!!

[OlderAndWiser]

Is she also messaging married men, single women, and married women? What is the nature of the messages? Are they flirty or entirely platonic?

[sage2021]

@OlderAndWiser
Nope! No women just these 3+? single guys here on GaG. I have no idea what they are talking about but it must be good because it's been going on for years!🤷🏼‍♀️

[OlderAndWiser]

There is a female user on this site who I have messaged for ten years. She is now married to a guy who is also a user on this site. Without any additional facts, you could conclude that I am doing something improper.

The additional facts are that she and I have been friends for the entire time, I have also become friends with her husband, and my wife and I met them for dinner the last time they were in Florida. It is all entirely innocent.

I understand that the situation you describe sounds suspicious but without knowing the content of their communications, it is impossible to confidently form any conclusions.

[sage2021]

@OlderAndWiser

All I'm saying is that if I was married I wouldn't be doing that!! Something's wrong with someone who needs that much emotional support and communication when they have a husband. I mean, where is he while all of this is going on? I hope her kids get to see her once in a while.🤷🏼‍♀️

[Dongie]

To tell you the truth I wouldn't think very much of it or her anymore.

[NoDecision]

You wouldn't get a divorce?

[Dongie]

I wouldn't get married.

[Geo1970]

I’d want to know if it’s, you know, naughty!!!
If so then I would like to know who it is and if it’s someone of interest then would it be something Mmm!!!, we would all enjoy but only short term.

[NoDecision]

When you say "This" website, do you mean G@G or like a dating site?

[sage2021]

@NoDecision

There are 3 of them on GaG.
There was a member sending me porn and a dick pick a few weeks ago on GaG through private messages.
So anything can be happening right?

[MrChinaski]

Her body, her choice. I don't tell women I love what they should do,

[sage2021]

@bddddd

Ya know what? That saying is really getting old! It's supposed to be about abortion.
So if your woman never ever has sex with you because her body didn't feel like it and it's her choice and obviously she gets the last word - I guess you'd be okay with going without sex your entire marriage?

[MrChinaski]

Tell it to the DAs prosecuting women in the USA for seeking abortions. Or alternatively, be my friend.

[Ironic_Method]

I wouldn't care because I trust my wife. Just because she's talking to someone doesn't mean she's emotionally cheating.

[Jennz6]

On this website people don’t know if they are messaging men or women

[Jeff51]

If on dating website I'd be asking what's up. Here I dont know.

[sage2021]

@Jeff51
It must be something good because they've been doing it here for years!

[Jeff51]

I guess this isn't a dating site. Maybe I'll let it go

[worldscolide]

If she was hiding it from me, Id divorce.

[exitseven]

It depends what the texts were about.

[dudeinohio]

Id be upset.