Why do promiscuous women who talk to married men or men in relationships feel the need to expose them to their wives?

[beenherebefore]

Often these women know the guys they're talking to are married or in relationships, they entertain the conversation, send inappropriate pictures and messages, sometimes even end up sleeping with them and then expose them to their wives. What's all that for?

[WonderingManII]

Maybe they secretly hate men? I was listening to a podcast and the woman who owns the podcast, said that she knows another woman who's husband cheated on her. That female friend said, it was bad that He cheated but the woman He cheated with, knew they were married, and yet still had sex with him... She continued by saying that society treats men like they are bad, while forgetting that the woman also played a role in it too. Both of these people did wrong. A man can't cheat unless He's got a woman who is willing to cheat with him. That is why I wonder if maybe the women you describe want to get the guy into trouble.

[beenherebefore]

That's very true! I figured that most affairs and cheating happen while the other women know very well that they guy is in a committed relationship. I understand that the Husband is the one who owns respect to his wife but you're also a piece of sh*t for still sleeping with him knowing he's in a relationship. Some women can be very trashy and have zero morals.

[WonderingManII]

@beenherebefore
Right. Think about all the sexy instagram girls. You see women on GAG asking questions, why does my guy add them as friends? I wonder if an instagram girl would say the same thing if she had a man adding other instagram girls. What I'm trying to say is, it seems like they are trying to make themselves tempting on purpose. It's ok, depending on what end you happen to be on. Are you the woman doing the tempting verses the woman trying to keep the guy she's already got. I don't think most of those sexy Instagram girls have any morals either. They only think about how many people they can get to follow them, and a whole lot of them are guys.

[OneViewpoint]

Who knows? Probably because these women are fucked up and confused. They want the guy who is never gonna leave his wife and go through the pain of divorce. So the mistress try to precipitate the divorce. Instead they cause a shit show for everyone with their scheming. More fun than an Alabama trailer park!

[beenherebefore]

Now I need to know what happens at the Alabama trailer park LOL.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Girl code, the wives need to know that their husbands are pieces of shit. Usually leads to a break-up and the moral taboo of cheating is no longer a thing

[beenherebefore]

What? If you sleep with another woman's man knowing that he's married and later tell his wife that's not girl code at all you are as guilty as the man. You knew it from the beginning and still decided to entertain the conversation and sleep with him, you're a piece of sh*t too.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You think telling the wife isn’t for the express purpose of snagging the man for herself?

[beenherebefore]

Absolutely so how is this girl code?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Is this only in cases where she already knows, or is it in cases where she finds out later?

[Effably]

I have had this explained to me as a sort of power fantasy. So I'd say that plus the added excitement. Exposing it either being for said power fantasy, when telling the other woman, or for some imagined moral highground.

[jahaims]

They are mentally ill. They get validation from the attention and aren't important to anyone so they try to stir up drama so they have something going on.

[Communicationisking]

Discredit the guy to their wife then get the guy

[beenherebefore]

I doubt a woman who does such thing gets the guy in the end.

[Communicationisking]

Maybe not in the end but when the wife hammers/temporarily leaves the guy because what she has been told by the "promiscuous" girl the guy then gets messages/calls from the other girl and it is only down hill from there.
There is people out there girl or guy that will without even the slightest thought about what they are doing, be selfish enough to fuck up a good relationship just to have the attention of the victim

[NathanDavis]

must be a thirst for drama

[beenherebefore]

100%

[genericname85]

cause that's better than her finding out you talked to her and then being paranoid about it.

[Gwendoline]

Hell has no fury like a woman scorned.

[MasterKS]

life is fun my dear... people enjoys.