To incels and NEETs who are guys: when did you decide to actively become or stay one?

[grungeberry]

[Summeroflove]

Never became one lol. However, negative experiences with the opposite sex tends to be why people become bitter and resentful towards everyone of the opposite sex. Even people who never did anything to them.

The first type are obviously the men who get rejected a LOT. Men who maybe aren’t as attractive so women don’t tend to choose them. Not just physically but being a nasty hate filled degenerate that thinks the opposite sex owes them something and when people can’t live up to their one sided, double standard, delusions they become resentful.

The second type is just that. Narcissists… Narcissists who have a deep sense of entitlement they feel as if the opposite sex owes them something and when they don’t get what they want. They become bitter and resentful. Obviously there is a female version of this as well. They have double standards and unrealistic expectations for someone. Standards they never hold themselves to.

Third type. Attractive men who have money and status. Men who are used and taken advantage of time and time again. May become bitter with women (or women with men) after being taken advantage of. Are all women bad? No. But you do have to be careful especially when you have something they want.

[grungeberry]

Yeah, someone hating an entire gender (or an entire…anything) is just crazy to me. They obviously don’t know what forgiveness is. Anyway, thanks for the feedback.

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome. And you know what someone may rightfully be angry with someone whose done them wrong.

But it’s not all womens fault or all men for that matter that one person is a shitbag

[Summeroflove]

The NEET men are just men who. Okay… They want a woman who has their lives together. Who takes basic care of themselves.

But they do none of that. Common narcissists…. It’s just like women who want a man whose all that and a bag of chips but has nothing to offer.

There are men who maybe aren’t the most educated. Don’t have the best job. Etc. But can pull decent women.

Okay. Be glad the gold diggers don’t want you in that case. But see…. They’re men who can offer emotional support. Are good men who work hard doing what they can and can build connections.

Men who just refuse to shower and want a supermodel. Hahaha okay good luck buddy

[Billlewis]

Like all men, I am *so* much sweeter, more attentive and generous when I’m not getting any. That doesn’t mean I don’t have sex, just no intercourse. I recently met the woman whom I’m going to marry, and I’ve convinced her to only let me please her orally, because that way, I’ll never take her for granted.

[Avicenna]

I doubt most of them actively decided to be one or stay one

[Anonymous]

Wtf is a NEET?

[grungeberry]

Gen Z term, I guess.

[grungeberry]

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