Silly?: Why does my male friend with benefits ask “where are we going with this” all the time?

[sbdjjdjssj]

We’ve been friends for 10+ years. friends with benefits last few months. I feel like I know the answer to this question, but just want to confirm if he really is catching feels so I can break it off. He asked me again this morning and I’m like stop fking asking me and just fk me. Lmao

[Shiprex]

Best let him go as he's in a place you're not. He's set to settle down and you want to fuck around. That's life, let him get his hearts desire with someone also willing.

[sbdjjdjssj]

That’s what I figured, felt like he kept asking me where my mind is (like his) when the reality is I have even thought about shit that bu didn’t want to say it out loud too him. Thanks!

[sbdjjdjssj]

To* him

[Shiprex]

You're welcome. He deserves to have clarity in who he wants to spend time with and if you're not them then let him go find someone who is.

[spartan55]

Ten years friends with benefits? You are both losers.

[sbdjjdjssj]

10 years friends. friends with benefits last few months. Lol

[spartan55]

Mmmm... great

[bowenw]

It sounds like he is hoping you will become more than friends and he likely already has feelings.

[katiesmuff]

Maybe he is getting attached!

[jahaims]

Friendship is over