Girl in another guy's pool?

Is it disrespectful if the woman you love was in another guy's swimming pool and jacuzzi/hottub? She claims they're only friends. Would you find it disrespectful if the woman you loved did that with another guy?

Also are they having sex when she gets off her livestreams on tiktok

The woman is 40 he's about 53

Girl in another guy's pool?
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