My boyfriend of one year knows I have jealousy issues but have slowly been coping with them. I don't get whiny when I'm jealous, but I do tend to get distant. Just recently we had a fight about him not putting enough effort in the relationship and him caring too about what other people think.(About how he didn't care much about my feelings) He came back from a short trip with his friends. When is came to talking to me at night he complained that all his other friends were having fun...I let that slide. On Facebook, pictures of him piggybacking another girl that we both know came up. I wouldn't have been so bothered, but that fact that it took place in a swimming pool does. He argued that the girl "jumped on him" and that he didn't want to be rude. (an example of him caring too much about what other people think) I remember back to when he said that he didn't like pda and I felt hurt. I mean, if he really wanted to, he could've avoided the situation by staying with his guy friends... How do I understand him? He apologized but I feel that's all he ever does nowadays... I love him but it's just too much...
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and about the pda...its the simple things. All I do is hug him and his body language is off. (I don't like extreme pda at all)
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