Why does a guy have wondering eyes while being in a relationship with a girl who he claiming to love?

[nessiee01]

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[SixFootSexy]

Wandering*

We aren't wondering if we want novelty in a relationship. Dress like a french maid or pirate wench from time to time.

[nessiee01]

Thanks , if i’m not misunderstanding guys only wonder if there’s no excitement in the relationship?

[Vevv123]

A person should know what to do when something is not exciting. They either make the relationship more exciting or they deal with less excitement. Less excitement isn’t a bad thing. Someone should know and be able to live with no excitement, if they can’t do that simple thing imagine what will happen when you are going through hurdles, have a baby, or pass the honeymoon phase for example? That’s not an excuse for someone to look for more excitement elsewhere and if it is that’s a red flag. People who chase dopamine and don’t know how to live without it are a red flag.

[SixFootSexy]

@Vevv123 I agree, but most people in western countries, especially women, do not have a low bar for their happiness or contentment.

[Twalli]

Because we can still notice other people who are attractive.

[Vevv123]

Because he doesn’t love her.

[nessiee01]

oh… -

[Vevv123]

Sorry to be so harsh 🥺 but these kinds of men never change. I would rather die alone than have to deal with a husband like this. I remember when I was a server and the older ladies would look so sad when their husbands had wandering eyes, I would hate to be them one day. I despise men with wandering eyes. Do what you can to save yourself, you’re young and you have enough time to look for someone that values you and is respectful to women. Respectful because staring at women is also rude. It’s my biggest irk. I hate it deeply. 😤

[In_Trance]

For the same reason women do

[WilliamPamer446]

Cuz booty though