Why dont guys believe women who say they dont find six packs attractive?

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I can appreciate it like a work of art, like I can find a well sculpted woman beautiful, but it's not attractive. I think a lot of women agree, but I've seen men just not believing it.

To me, Mads mikkelsen has the ideal male body.

Purpleronnie · Accepted Answer

Well coming from an “ Anonymous “ female gendered profile firstly you’d have to prove to me that your actually a woman 😜 lol

Joking aside , I actually don’t care whether they do or don’t. The body I’ve got is how nature / simple biology intended , together with my age , my focuses in life and generally what’s important to me. Having a six pack , 4 pack , Tupac ( look where that got him ) or a ‘single can’ abdomen means less than nothing to me and never ever has. I never wanted to attract a girl or woman who put value in a boy or man having a six pack as I was confident that this would fail to standup in comparison to many other positive attributes a lot which I ‘know’ I possess either anatomically , emotionally or intellectually.

I still walk and drive by gyms and smile , shaking my head at the thought of all those pushing their bodies to limits they were not built for in the hope of a six packs , butt’s you could bounce a penny on and bulging biceps etc. We have one life and that’s how people want to spend their time and money 🤣🤣🤣

WindAtMyBack · Accepted Answer

The guys who don't believe women about this won't believe them about anything else either. Unfortunately those whiners are highly vocal.

Just ignore those guys. Most guys don't expect a perfect ideal fantasy woman, and most women don't expect a perfect ideal fantasy guy.

Most normal people expect someone they actually like. Liking someone has very little to do with six packs and big boobs. The majority of people get this, because they are with someone they like, who does not fit some kind of perfect idealized person.

When you are in love with someone and the heart goes pitter patter, it's not about six packs.

msmissydc · Accepted Answer

Its not that its not attractive. But its soo low on a priority list of looks, that its really far from any minimum. In addition I think men generally are more focused on looks. That doesn't mean women dont like good looking men, but to generally feel attraction, looks are less high on a scale compared to other characteristics.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Because men like looking at six-packs as much as they like looking at penises.. It is one of the many homo-erotic tendencies men have but still haven't come to terms with it.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

It's hard to believe anything a woman says. One day you all seem to want this and that and then the next it's the opposite. So... I just don't care what women want.

Let me make this clear...

And I still get rejected, but not as much as when I had a gut. I think you all have your own little fetishes and kinks and it doesn't matter what I do, I would never be good enough for all of you. So fuck you, I'll go with what the majority of you seem to want... that way I get more pussy. A woman wanting a beer gut probably isn't pussy I wanted anyway.

I hope that last sentence stung.

contentious · Answer

Guys work toward what gets results for them. If that doesn't please you, then tough shit. Guys do the approaching the large majority of the time, so it's a numbers game. You can have your own preferences, but you're not the center of the universe so what you think really isn't all that important. Guys see results in ease of getting attention and landing dates when they are in better shape, more confident in themselves, doing better financially and so on... Certain types of bait catch more fish.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Simple, really. What women say and what women do are diametrically opposed the vast majority of the time. She says she likes “dad bod” while banging the gym rat and complaining to her guy pal with the dad bod about how much time her beau spends at the gym. Ell oh ell!

demonics · Answer

This is usually a loaded question...

^This persons opinion is irrelevant. If this is you, and your preference is whatever BS the media is trying to sell women on (i. e. this kind of shit:

Why dont guys believe women who say they dont find six packs attractive?

I mean think about how silly this sounds "I'm 3rd quintile in attractiveness or lower and I like guys who..." Lady, you take what you can get. Ain't nobody with a 6 pack picking you anyway. Cut the crap.

"Why don't guys believe *attractive women, when they say..."

Oh, thats because we look at your exes/dudes you hooked up with.

Anonymous · Answer

Same reason women don’t believe a lot of things men say. I tried telling one of my co-workers why a lot of men won’t date nurses. Even had another male co-worker confirm it but she was still in denial that that was the biggest reason. They’re the same ones who ask me questions about men who are about my age or in their 30s. I don’t know why I still entertain it when they keep denying what I tell them. I’m not saying everything I say is 100% for men, but omen know men and we all kind of think alike. But nope still in denial.

snermcger · Answer

A man who has a six-pack probably works hard to maintain that physique.

That means he focuses a lot on himself, his health, and his appearance.

Women don't like six packs because women want all of the attention on THEM.

MOST women are essentially self-obsessed narcissists.

How can you bathe them in attention while you're at the gym, working on yourself?

That ultimately means focusing less on the woman, her needs, and her wants (which are endless).

How can she shine when you she is walking next to a chiseled specimen?

The man must be pleasant looking but not too handsome, fit, but not an Adonis.

Women... fap.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I've heard women say they don't really like super fit guys in general. And the reason is completely female, LOL. A guy with chiseled abs and a super fit physique makes women self conscious about their own bodies and they simply don't want to be in a position where they feel forced to "keep up" with a gym rat. I mean it makes sense. It's just funny.

aceleon · Answer

i could agree with you at least on it is not needed to be liked by girls.

but the body you mention? sorry girl but if that was your ideal body you have some weird fetish.

i do agree woman gets turned off by over muscular guys. but a little abs is never harmfull.

Stevepro68 · Answer

Personally I can appreciate the surgical ozempic rail thin super model bodies. But young women who all seem to use the same tools to achieve this perceived perfection. Don't get it. I like imperfect assymetric natural boobs a nice body but a little extra is super awesome. Lastly just normal lips. Women get a different message but I like natural flawed imperfections. Just beautiful her.

Jackblue · Answer

A lot of things confuse us about you. Like how is it that women can be straight but prefer the aesthetic appeal of naked female bodies and consider naked male ones ugly. Likewise it is hard for us to understand how a physically fit man would not be your ideal like a fertile looking woman is ours. I guess truth be told men and women are attracted differently.

Levin · Answer

We're not fussed what you arbitrarily like one day, and hate another. We like working out for ourselves. It's merely a consequence of being in shape. Not something that has to be 'strived' for.

beenherebefore · Answer

That's a very niche statement. You're a minority that's why men tend to not believe what you say.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

Ideally if I was describing a hot woman - she's genetically got a naturally flat stomach - no abs muscles no toned - just a flat stomach

No muffin 🎩 🧁 surely women expect or should've expected the same of their men

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Because the female attention I’ve gotten from when I was overweight vs. when I was muscular/fit proves that women prefer strong, fit men

Phoenix98 · Answer

Can't say I ever met a woman that didn't like em to be honest with you.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Cuz every action figure, athlete, entertainer has them from the day we're born?

Anonymous · Answer

Because most women usually like muscular guys, not fat guys.

Anonymous · Answer

I believe it, I know a carry a good 20 pounds too much but back when I was skinny, I dated and turned down other women because I'm loyal

Anonymous · Answer

Probably for the same reason women don't believe it when a guy says a woman's weight doesn't really matter.

qwerty2469 · Answer

Because they fuck guys that treat them like trash if they have 6 pack abs. I have 4 pack abs

On_cloud_wine · Answer

Because they keep telling themselves that

class_reductionist · Answer

the guy after me is always the things they said they weren't attracted to

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

So a thin person?

dudeinohio · Answer

I believe them.

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