Why am I never enough?

[Anonymous]

I think I want to put in a transfer at my job…. I struggle with bipolar disorder and ocd…. I became attracted to my coworker who is next door to me and I thought we would become cool after having a lot of things in common but he became hot and cold with me but I don't know he is a bit reserved… I realized that he talks easier to my coworker and I think she’s attracted to him… maybe their is something I don't know. Me and my female coworker became very close in a short time but it triggered my insecurities badly because I felt like what does she have that I don’t so I told her we should keep things professional…

I hate being next door to him… if he says good morning which he never does I’ll just let him know for here on out he doesn’t have to say good morning to me… he’s not obligated to ….

I just want to completely ignore him

[Genie23]

So, based on what I gathered... When you like a guy, you can be intense and your insecurity is causing problems too as you pushed your female coworker away.

I think if he affects you then you should just keep things strictly professional. Just have work related conversation otherwise just ignore. Besides, dating/having feelings for a coworker can be quite messy, so it's better you just focus on your work and do things that makes you happy rather than think about person who makes you overthink or upset. You don't have to put in for transfer. You'll get over him.

[mysteriousNicholas]

We're all, enough 🙏👍🥳

[jahaims]

You are immature