Is women emotions annoying for men?

[Anonymous]

How guys feel when girl they don’t like much opens up about her feelings and depression. Is it irritating and annoying for them?

[aceleon]

more like unnecessary.

like don't get me wrong but most problems girls talks about is things they can actually go and do something about so seeing them whining about it instead of solving it makes it look unnecessary to listen.

[Anonymous]

If I have no connection or interest in her, yes it is annoying. If I has some sort of relation to her, I might hear her out.

[Nikki1989]

The ways emotions are expressed—by anyone, regardless of gender—can become frustrating, exhausting, or confusing.

[Anonymous]

They can be. Especially when women expect men to react or think the way they do when it comes to emotions.

[Sal_Monella]

Men want respect, acceptance and stability. No drama or psychological outbursts. In the end, far more important than sex.

[Phantomshadow77]

Women want respect, acceptance, and stability too. Sometimes women have outbursts because we’ve been hiding our vulnerability for too long and need someone to support us and comfort us.

[Sal_Monella]

@Phantomshadow77 Is that an excuse for disrespect, rejection or instability? Or it a reason to head for the door? We do not have to tolerate vulnerability or emotional outbursts. They inevitably start with: " Its because you... " My Lab Retriever does not say that.

[Phantomshadow77]

There would be more stability if you were more attentive to her needs and didn’t treat her needs as optional or incorrect because they were inconvenient. I never said you had to look disrespect but sometimes people get emotional and need someone to give them that stability. Just like how you get emotional and need her to give you that stability. Men have emotional outbursts too but the difference is women are attentive to that emotional vulnerability and men are not. If she has an out burst, it’s a sign that there isn’t stability and she needs that. Sometimes we need people to accept us when we’re at one of our most vulnerable moments. You can’t expect her to be sexually vulnerable if you can’t accept her when she’s emotionally vulnerable.

[Sal_Monella]

@Phantomshadow77 Translated: "It's because you..."

[Phantomshadow77]

If she voices her needs and you dismiss those needs and only see those needs as valid if it doesn’t inconvenience you, then yes. It is your fault. Women have emotional needs just like men. I think you’re forgetting that women aren’t appliances for you to use for emotional and domestic labor, they’re actual people with needs and when you go into a relationship with the goal to make her happy, her needs sound pretty reasonable. She just wants you to put in effort and pay attention to her so you can anticipate her needs based on the patterns you recognize about her (just like how she does for you. Notice how you never have to ask her more than 1 time to meet your needs if you even have to ask her?) she just wants you to take care of her the way she takes care of you. If you don’t want to meet women’s emotional needs, don’t date women. Nothing is stopping you from being single or dating guys.

[Sal_Monella]

@Phantomshadow77 This ranting is why we are increasingly staying home. Those of us who overcome the addiction to women, which centers around sex and validation, rid ourselves of a major cause of early death. Increasingly, we don't need to or want live with a land mine. Women have relegated their value to a pussy and a paycheck. We'd rather you engage in the feeding frenzy for those vaunted 6'2", Master degreed 10-percenters; " Chads," so we can watch while drinking beer; like watching a NASCAR race on TV.

Both P's disappear because the first is always rationed for control and manipulation and the latter goes increasingly to lawyers when women file the 80% of all divorces. Then there is the fraudulent sex related litigation intended to destroy reputations, careers and whatever children you tolerated. Quite simply, you are no longer worth the risk and we are walking away. I suppose that's what MGTOW is, but real men don't need support groups. Just good shoes.

For those men who need a companion, millions can be recruited out of the Orient or Latin America, Those women are still authentic and want real men who are ordinary plumbers, farmers and firefighters. Western women are like Maserati's. They can look good and be hot while you last but I evitably high maintenance and unreliable.

We don't need you. We need Camrys, Accord's and... Accord (good play on words) So you have a really nice day. Ya hear?

[AngryCarl2]

I'm not annoyed by emotions, so much as lack of logic and consistency. For guys logic trumps emotions. For women it's the exact opposite.

[Anonymous]

yes especially if she isn't looking for her problems to be solved

[Phantomshadow77]

Sometimes women just want to express their emotions and let them out so they don’t get bottled up. It’s like when you vent to your partner about something. You’re not necessarily looking for a solution, you’re looking for support and protection.

[Opinion Owner]

@Phantomshadow77 the difference is men are looking for solutions

no man is going to fault someone for offering them a solution to a problem

[ChicoFromThe305]

Depends how much it's done

[BarryLiverstone]

They can be over time

[Khlifi]

Annoying sometimes when you're at the wrong time

[MasterKS]

yes sometimes.