My boyfriend is my first and only body, but he doesn't care and tells me he wouldn't care anymore or any less. am I not special to him?

[Anonymous]

i know it might be immature but i've always cared about the first person i trusted to sleep with. I know im lucky i have a man who says he would love me no matter what, but I wanna feel special because it's something special to me.

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9 mo

sorry i'm not in my 40s the account was random I put a random date, im 19

[236color]

Ok, I think you misunderstand. He's not saying he doesn't care about you. What he's saying is if you had a larger body count it would not put him off. I'm assuming he somewhere close to your age range, and that he's probably had relationships with 1 or more women before you. He not so insecure that he must be with someone who has no one to compare him to. It's not that you don't is a bad thing, it's just not a necessary thing.

[slatyb]

You first at about 40? I think your feelings are a bit immature due to your inexperience. Are you saying you want him to feel differently because you didn't have sex before you met? What exactly do you want? All you can get from him are words. What do you want him to say?

[avery58]

There's guys like that who don't give a damn that it was a special thing at least for their partner. Regardless of his own feelings, I think it's rude of him to be dismissive of your own perspective.

[Abbycado]

It does seem immature at your age. He is simply saying that not matter if you were his first or fifth it wouldn't matter. He would love you all the same is what I take from it.

[Asker]

sorry the age is wrong i made a random account but still i agree

[spartan55]

I dont even understand what you are talking about here.

[In_Trance]

You're insane.
He told you he'll love you no matter what but that doesn't make you feel special? Wtf

[Asker]

I understand and that's why i just asked on here because i wanted to know if it was just my man that wasn't really possessive about it, he makes me feel special in many ways I was just wondering if i should car or not

[seeyounexttuesday]

here's a wild thought. Tell him how much it means to you.

[Asker]

i have

[seeyounexttuesday]

ok. He's not obligated to think the same way as you. Hope this helps.

[Asker]

i know, i wasn't saying that im sorry, i was just wondering if it meant anything more or less.
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[jahaims]

Almost like you should have done that with someone with the same values as you

[Anonymous]

Maybe you need a better boyfriend.

[Pterodon]

You’re how old?

[Asker]

19 yr

[Pterodon]

Ok. Calm down. This is why sex requires maturity. It doesn’t seem you’re handling it well.