Is it normal for your husband to call you b*tch?

[Anonymous]

I guess.. he’s my soon to be ex, but I’m just curious if it’s normal for a guy to call you “bitch” in conversations pretty much everyday/constantly…? like it’s his form of endearment rather than “babe” or “love.” …I recently heard from others that is not really normal and I just thought it was even though I hated it… thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I call my girlfriend bitch all the time, but only in private. Apart from that, I'm always romantic. In public I never disrespect her. It's more a joke. At the beginning she didn't like, now it's not a problem.

[spartan55]

I really hope you already know the answer to this... smh

[Asker]

Admittedly, I 100% thought it was normal (even though I hated it) until two days ago… it wasn’t on my list of things that weren’t quite right in the relationship until a friend mentioned that it wasn’t…

[Nikki1989]

No, it is absolutely not normal, acceptable, or healthy for your husband to call you a b*tch or any other derogatory or profane name. This is a form of verbal abuse and emotional disrespect.

[Asker]

Thank you for this response and clarification… there were other things that were the reason I left but I didn’t realize this, too, was possibly part of the abuse….

[caseybunny]

I always thought it wasn't normal, like my boyfriend never does it or did any other guy from my town.
But now I moved to the city for college and here its quiet normal

[Asker]

No one from where he is from does it, but I heard some girls when I was younger call each other that consistently so I thought maybe it was but I’m not 100% convinced it was normal for him… but yeah

[beenherebefore]

My Partner never called me Bitch not even as a joke.

[Asker]

Noted!

[AydenHazor]

It's not normal and you absolutely deserve better than this

[Asker]

Thank you for your thoughts 🌻

[supervibes06]

I feel like calling anyone "bitch" isn't okay to say to your partner or anyone in general

[wkhan_87]

Don't know is it normal or no ,
But it is immoral definitely

[ItsAshh2009]

No, not normal at all

[Asker]

Noted!

[OneViewpoint]

Depends on what culture he comes from.

[thatshydork]

No, not at all.