How often is it that men physically think about doing something intimate with their female friends? Are men just waiting in the friendzone?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It depends on 3 factors typically. 1. Age. Young men are foolish and inexperienced and easily tricked by an experienced succubus.

2. How much of a tease that woman is. Some women simply do not understand what a healthy relationship is. And when I say "relationship" I mean of all kinds. From "romantic" to platonic it is all the same to this type of woman. She flirts with everything is pants because every man is a target to her. She has no real understanding of what love is, be it friendship, romantic, or likely even familial. She just knows that feminine wiles get her stuff, get her reactions when she turns it on.

3. Experience. This kind of goes hand in hand with age to most guys. But some guys gain experience quicker with women. I always like to say a woman loses her "super powers"😆 around 40. Some may say as early as 30. But in reality what is going on is as guys gain in age and are tricked by women they're learning. By 30 sometimes 40 a guy has seen just about every trick a woman has in their bag. He's simply not taking the bait anymore and avoiding the trap altogether. To a lesser extending women start showing their age about this point as well which also works against her. But as I said, it's to lesser extent.

Hope that helps you understand better.👍

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

I frequently think about, and have ALWAYS thought about, eating out my various 'friends' over the years, whether they were married or single . Reason being, I have been approached by some of those 'friends' and have been asked "why, have you never made a pass at me".  I have at times fucked a 'friend' multiple times while the husband was away for an extended time One of the Moderators will delete this reply for it being too explicit, but so be it, you asked and I gave you an honest answer.

Bitter_Sweet94 · Accepted Answer

It depends on the man, but it’s not as dramatic as people make it sound.

Some men do have quick, passing thoughts about their female friends not because they’re “waiting,” but because attraction is a reflex, not a plan.

It doesn’t automatically mean they want something, or that they’d ever act on it.

And then there are men who genuinely see their female friends as friends.

No agenda, no hidden hopes, no “friendzone countdown.”

So the real answer
Men aren’t all secretly waiting.

Some get curious for a moment, some don’t think about it at all, and the ones who respect you won’t let a thought turn into pressure.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Most of them doing it like all the time. A guy who doesn’t is either a true rarity or gay. Or possibly just not interested in you, although even that guy will probably do an ONS if he’s single and you offer (and sometimes if he’s not single).

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

The short version, yes. It gets a bit complicated.

In the majority of cases if she were to offer sex, the make friends would likely accept. But then you have to separate those just wanting sex and those hoping for an actual relationship with her.

snermcger · Answer

There is a very finite 'tap zone' most women give to most guys they find attractive.

It's an evolutionary thing.

You have to actively work for access to the eggs. If she rejects you and you handle it with tact you can most likely always remain amicable. However, if you never press for access to the vault, and get friend zoned, you'll never be fully respected.

That's the worst part, you're just a limp noodle in her mind.

This leads us to the final point. Why TF would you wanna be buddies with a chick you wanna tap? Eunuch move.

Lliam · Answer

I can't help making an assessment and wondering what she would be like, but I don't dwell on it unless she is super hot.
Before I was married, I would think about it more if we were friends and she was sexy. But I wouldn't make it weird unless she gave off vibes like she was interested.

genericname85 · Answer

i don't think sexually about all my female friends. just the ones i crush on. and if they'd "wait in the friendzone", you'd know. cause the only way for him to know that he is in the friendzone would be by rejection from you. and you'd know if you previously rejected him. if you never rejected him, he's not in the "friendzone".

Crankor · Answer

From the years listening to my own, yes like 90% of the time they would hit her up if she asked. Some of them have inappropriately flirted every now and then to try and "wear her down" (it didn't matter if she was dating someone or not) and in some cases it worked but ofcourse it was just for the sex.

snapkingmatt · Answer

Haha we're hormone-driven. Off course we jerk off to our female friends. Don't think the males you know don't. It doesn't mean we want to get out of the friendzone. We just want sex.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Only the very insecure believe in the friendzone nonsense.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Some guys are horn dogs. And yes as u know they all masturbate and think about sex a lot. But not all guys are like this? What have you noticed with your boyfriends?

ABC1x1x · Answer

No. I hate girls. I think this is why most of my best friends are girls. I dont want anything from them. In 44 years one or 3 have felt things for me. I let one out of the friend zone and I will regret it every single day until I die.

McLlovin · Answer

Aha so we all admit men and women can't be just friends? Lol how are you thinking of your friend that way if you see them as just friends

Anonymous · Answer

Almost always, and yes which is why friend zone is so painful when a guy actually cares about the girl but she's just using him and making him suffer by telling him about other guys she's having sex with.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

„Sometimes we sat on the couch and watched television.“  - Tom Sanders, Disclosure

Jackblue · Answer

Not always, I have had female friends I haven't thought that much about having sex with, I am not sure if I would have refused them if they came onto me though since I was single.

jahaims · Answer

Depends on the guy and how mature he is. Most guys friends will sleep with a female friend if given the chance.

JDLives · Answer

I’ve had a couple where I never even thought about it and I’ve had some where I do wonder what it would be like. When that happens I think about it probably once a week.

BreakPoem · Answer

Even if we're stuck in the friend zone, sexuality is an essential part of our lives. So, even if we don't show it, we fantasize about what someone we like might look like in bed or kissing.

Anonymous · Answer

I keep all of my female friends at an arms length distance both figuratively and literally and if I develop anything resembling romantic feelings I cut them off. I'd rather not step on that landmine.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

I would say if you were previously in a relationship then yes

Anonymous · Answer

It depends how attractive you are. It will be most of your straight Guy friends that think like that or just think about you naked or both, I thought you Girls already knew that.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I'm glad I'm old. I didn't have to deal with the "friend zone."

kaucky1 · Answer

Nah not me I not need to speak just FUCK not have feelings to getting attached

Awomaninamansbody · Answer

Men are much more active and impulsive than women. Their brain tell them to act instantly without delay.

Siajanua2027 · Answer

When she bends over in front of me wearing a mini dress or leggings,

Anonymous · Answer

We cum a lot thinking about a girl before we actually cum in her.

slatyb · Answer

About 200 times per hour.

jkreuger95 · Answer

Most of the time

Anonymous · Answer

Some do. Some don't.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some guys probably do so constantly.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

The answer to your question is yes.

Pterodon · Answer

All the fucking time for me

smarthunk · Answer

Every single day and night

FreyaRed · Answer

all the time

MasterKS · Answer

Its always mostly about sex.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Constantly 😳

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