How are men supposed to feel good about ourselves if women find most men unattractive?

[Jerry_Jay]

[RavVid]

Gay guys look better than straight guys because they care about how they look. Salesmen look better than most guys.

Women spend 3 triilion $'s globally on looking beautiful and hopefully some of that works.

Me - I don't care how I look. I just care about what I can do. I am at a very low bar but I think most straight guys don't care as much women. gay guys and salesmen.

So of course we aren't going to look as good.

Inherently in the question is the answer. Because it implies that men should seek validation from women. If you do that, you will chase your tail trying to meet new demands. It will never stop.

Instead you should work on your own goals and being happy with your achievements

[Evsisa]

Your opinion of yourself shouldn’t be based on what random women find attractive and not.

[Nikki1989]

Wow, so you know what most women are thinking?

[Jerry_Jay]

Wasn't there a study showing that a lot of women found 80% of men less than average?

[Brady]

Jerry _Jay
Yes, something about most girls findin' 80% of guys unattractiv.

[NathanDavis]

value yourself for the more than one and many reasons you can become good, great and more... don't seek the validation on others for just that one factor that's kind of superficial as well... just the looks

we are all more than just looks

[Brady]

Type in the search box do you think Jessica Alba is attractive? Then do it for Taylor Swift and other female celebs.

Most think Jessica's attractiv n a few don't. I 1ce saw a question somewhere askin y peopl r calling her ugly. I think she's in the middle.

This shows even girls most peopl think r attractive hav some who don't think so. So b happy with the girls that find u and guys attractiv.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Why do you need external solutions for an internal problem? That’s like using software to fix a hardware issue.

[Jerry_Jay]

What can a person do to accept being considered unattractive?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Well, if you’re convinced your life can only be made best in an amatonormative perspective, then maybe it’s time to question why you think that way. That can be the only reason I can think of for why you’re doing this at all

[OneViewpoint]

Don't let other people, especially strangers, determine your self worth. Stop giving a fuck about people who don't matter. Spend your time focusing on the people who do matter for you.

[jahaims]

If you get your value from your looks then you are an idiot

[Hellraiser1984]

We just go on living our lives with our friends and enjoying our hobbies