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Guy at work said he’s not texting anybody first anymore. Later I texted him so you're not gonna text me first lol. How would a guy view that message?
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Would you text a guy who doesn't text you first?
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A guy will likely view the message "so you're not gonna text me first lol" as a mixture of playful banter, confirmation of your interest, and a call-out of his stated rule.
Because you added "lol," it keeps the tension light rather than confrontational, which can be seen as confident and flirty.
Why would he take this as interest if we're coworkers?
Liar liar pants on fire. You were last on a Blur account pretending to be the guy in this situation, now you’re a woman? @Abbycado jfc.
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Well, you can text him that. However, don't do that more than once otherwise you will look desperate. Just wait for his reply.