What are signs of an abusive guy?

[coxoabean]

[FreyaRed]

It starts with lack of respect often. They think always they are better than you. However few of them have good human knowledge and try to row back if they notice you aren't an easy target then they try with appeasement.
Usual patterns are intimidation > appeasement > fearmongering > telling false truths > threats..

[Nikki1989]

It often starts subtly, through patterns of control, disrespect, or manipulation.

[Anonymous]

• taking control of the finances
• insisting on making decisions
• breaking into or seizing a partner’s phone, computer, or other devices
• opening their partner’s mail
• telling their partner how to dress, who they can socialize with, or what they can eat

Stay protected.

[LiamS95]

Guys that are pushy about getting their own way.

[desidoll]

They usually start by raising their voice before putting their hands on you.

[butterly248]

It's true. My ex was verbal, emotional etc. He only grabbed my writs and was slapping my head. But if I had stayed I don't know if I would still be here today

[desidoll]

@butterly248 I am glad you left before things get worse. I know some women who stayed for so long that they ended up in the hospital 💔

[coxoabean]

@butterly248 so would you say verbal abuse is him degrading her, putting her down, calling her stupid, telling her to shut up when she tried to talk telling her "f you" and stuff like that?

[butterly248]

Verbal and emotional @coxoabean

[butterly248]

Controlling behavior. Constant insults. Randomly grabbing/pushing u. Shouting at u for no reason. If u need help please call a helpline ASAP. U r not alone, as a survivor of abuse, there is light and the end of the tunnel ❤️

[Theunfadeable]

All the animals run from him or try to avoid him.

[RavVid]

For evolutionary reasons girls pick arrogant and aggressive guys. That is your prob.

[Alex-Snow]

A guy who wants to control everything from money to everyday decisions and when to have sex.

[Nik1hil]

BIGGEST SIGN: Girls are Standing in a line to get Abused and hurt by him!

[YourExLover69]

He would be impatient, noisy, having anger issues, gets angry quickly, intoxicates etc.

[Anonymous]

Punching in the face rather than spanking the bottom.

[Still-alive]

Disrespecting your boundaries

[queenofcardio]

A guy with anger issues

[DryGermanGuy]

His girlfriends often slip in the shower. 🙄

[mukon]

extreme jealousy

[NerdGuy89]

Everything women want

[Steve-the-lion]

A man who flashes his penis in the street.

[jahaims]

He acts abusive