Outta the hookup game?

[Anonymous]

This guy "A" (28m) and I (26F), went on four decent dates a year ago before he called it off on the grounds that he wasn't obsessed with me.

I proceeded to get into an 8 month relationship after "A", where "A" could see all the dates, relationship posts, etc on instagram.

After my breakup he kept reaching out to me and we ended up meeting up for a hookup at his place. I wasn't prepared, shaved, no cute lingerie or anything as it was so last minute. Even my hair and makeup was a little questionable - at least for my standards. We still had multiple rounds and in the morning he was a gentleman and made me coffee and paid for my uber.

I've been out of the hookup game for so long it's got me in my head wondering if he'll end up reaching out to hookup again? Any pointers on if it's likely? TIA - a girl who's way too in her head <3

[Chloe432]

It seems like he would want to do it again. My advice would be just make sure you know what you want, like if you only want something casual with him don't let him try to talk you into a relationship. But if you really did want a relationship, don't keep hooking up.

[Asker]

I appreciate this! in my younger years I would've been dead set on "this is my chance! I can make him want a relationship"... now I couldn't want anything less

[Anonymous]

So you’re just interested in hooking up? I’d be thinking about meeting an actual person to form a relationship w. But in answer to your question I’m sure he will reach out again. For one he doesn’t have to put any effort into it as far as hooking up w you. It’s free food. If I was him I’d be calling for a blow n go on my car w how easy you sound.

[Asker]

Thanks… like I said we dated before and neither one of us is looking for a relationship… maybe don’t be a prude and you’d get some

[Opinion Owner]

lol I already do get some, more than some w my wife of 18 years. You you’re pushing 30 still single. Doesn’t get better in the dating market for most women at your age especially as you get older. That’s why I said you might want to actually look for someone to form a real relationship w. Nice try though

[spartan55]

@asker
Why would you say that? You don't know shit about this poster and his sex life. A prude? Doesn't even make sense.

[Anonymous]

Well after reading all that and you both mature 20s adults

Saturday is Valentine's Day : 💘 💌 hope you lovebirds have a good safe humble time
If you so choose to.

[Opinion Owner]

*you *are (typo's) sigh. GAG always slow and losing my words half type

[Asker]

haha sadly he's not gonna take me out for valentines day LOL I wish tho!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh dear. Your eyes may go wandering then would be my smart arse comeback to him and mean it - then the apples come crawling back 🍎🍏 🫴

[Opinion Owner]

Peace out though lady

[spartan55]

Yeah... she doesn't want a relationship but wants him to take her out for Valentine's Day...😅 😅 😅

[Opinion Owner]

As she says "she's willing to get back on the horse" - and that should be respected. Takes a lot of - courage - to get back on 🐴🐎 especially if being "thrown off" - 📴 using our analogies here - puns intended lol anal. Hope she had a happy Cupid's Day or someday 💘 or 2027

[Opinion Owner]

Hope your wishes come true someday 🙏 🪔 genie lamp and prayers for you

[Opinion Owner]

Lady

[spartan55]

Of course he will, you are an easy lay.