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Now I’ve always dreamed of having a tall, good looking guy and marry him or at least a guy I can share my life with. I NEVER get the guys I want but the guys that want me, I DONT WANT THEM. I was a fat tall teenager and now I’m a chubby woman that’s losing weight.
Anyways ever since we were teenagers my friends and teachers kept saying my guy friend likes me but I didn’t believe it. No way.
After a lot of crummy exes and dates sucked, I have up. I get rejected and guys won’t snag me but my friends have lovely boyfriends. I am still single!
Now, I feel like everytime his name is mentioned, I get this feeling in my stomach and feeling weak. I don’t understand why I keep thinking about him lately and sent me a valentine card saying to the most beautiful girl. Sent a dozen flowers to me and a poem he wrote. That was sweet. I don’t know why my heart melted. He doesn’t drive. His mom helped him send them. He even send a voiceover singing a love song to me.
My ex boyfriends (most neurotypical, one neurodivergent) never did that for me! I keep fighting that I only like him as a friend. I keep saying stop thinking about your friend and think about your crush from college. Love songs come on and my guy friend pops up!
My best friend told me, “Ah ha! I KNEW IT! You DO like like! Admit! I think you’re falling in love with him.”
That is impossible! I can’t like my guy friend! I like my crush!
She said forget my crush and I should give my guy friend a chance. Even my parents said I should consider it. We’re both autistic.
Now all of a different he told me he dreamed of being a father but he doesn’t even care for kids. He said, “things change.
My best friend said since I am good with kids and I work with him, he is working on himself, maturing and developing to love kids. He’s doing that to impress me. Ugh!
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Why do I suddenly keep thinking about my guy friend lately?
Fuck yeah!! How can I get my guy friend to stop pursing me? I DO NOT WANT HIM. I already have a crush in college. My best friend said he’s going to be crushed if he found out you like another guy after all the heart and soul he put out for you. Your crush is way out of your league
Amazing story writing, again! Great dialogues.
It’s the truth!!! I don’t care if you don’t believe me.
So are you actually asking a question or just venting?
Both….
I don’t want no white man. I want a BLACK MAN and my crush is BLACK.
Fair enough. It's pretty shitty that "everyone" around is promoting a guy friend like an arranged marriage. Granted you sound pretty defeated for reasons I don't get. Trust me your friends don't have such great boyfriends if they're touting them all the time. Doesn't matter anyway if you're just going to sit around and hope for prince charming to magically appear. Also you're about as autistic as I am, which is like 1/10. Finally what the hell is neurotypical and neurodivergent?
Yeah you’re right.
www.rula.com/blog/neurotypical-vs-neurodivergent/
Nah just tell a brief overview, or don't whatever I don't click on links here.
Oh okay. Fine…
Neurotypical: people that function in a typical way and they don’t have a disability. They’re brains functional normally.
Neurodivergent: something that sees the world differently and our brains are wired differently. Like for example someone with ADHD, dyslexia, autism, Down syndrome and Tourettes other disabilities. We’re not normal
Lol why didn't just say normal and insane? Yup we are definitely not normal..
Okay people with disabilities are not insane…
Shit until they don't get that disability check!
How rude! People are so mean to disabled people