Girls, how often do male friends or coworkers like you more than you want?

[Natasha1995]

And how did you handle the situation? Being up front, or trying to avoid the subject?

[RandomGirl42]

Frequently but since I live in a really small town and come from a large, respected family and everyone knows I'm lesbian they pretty much leave me alone. Occasionally I'll get the comment like, "If you ever go straight let me know." or something like that. 😳

[Natasha1995]

LOL They must be quite desperate to say something like this.

[RandomGirl42]

Life in a small town. 🤣

[Natasha1995]

Yeah, tell me about it. Everyone knows what you're up to, where you've been and especially who you've been with. I call my home town GOSSIP TOWN.

[Abbycado]

I tend to make it known I am with someone through conversation early on. That works to a degree. I am just up front otherwise.

[Abbycado]

Ty for mho!

[queenofcardio]

It happens. I try to establish boundaries early on..

[Anonymous]

It’s happened a lot. I try to deflect it as gently as I can, but sometimes I have no choice but to avoid and block the person.

[Nikki1989]

Constantly. I still get asked out on dates despite being married.

[Kelly6]

@Natasha1995

For me my friends always try it or daily.

But I laugh with them and talk directly, rather then giving signals that guys can't understand

[Rimaisme]

I try to be upfront as soon as possible,