Common Interests, do guys like that in girls?

[Anonymous]

I have this little crush on a guy. We like a lot of the same things, from hobbies to sports. Do guys find this attractive in a girl and will this help me for the guy I like? (by the way I don’t see him anymore, but keeps coming up as a friend suggestion and we didn’t exchange numbers or any social media following each other)

[Anonymous]

You don’t have to be into everything I am. Actually I’d prefer if you didn’t. Because if you have different hobbies then I could potentially get involved in some new interest that you show me, just the same as my interest that you may like. I’m not saying it won’t help, but I don’t want to date myself. It’s good to be open to new things. I really don’t like when women act like they like sports, so please don’t do that if you don’t like sports. The other thing that comes before all your similar interest, is if you’re pretty. Because if you aren’t he isn’t really going to want to get to know you to begin w.

[Guy13]

For me serious relationships are based on common interests and the ability to be friends. Equally yolked is how I heard it described as a child. Common values, beliefs, and general worldview is paramount. If I do not want sex until marriage but she does is a for instance.

I would never worry about being so alike that we bored one another. We are simply to strange individually to ever be boring to one another... IF we are open and honest about who and what we are and who/what we are NOT. If you are bored then people are withholding truth.

[kylee2437]

Most men like you to be yourself. So that means you don’t necessarily have to be into everything that this guy is into , but be open to care about his hobbies as he should be open to care about what you personally enjoy

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy. Just like women.