Are guys not really into girls who are sometimes seen as "too much"?

[Ry1223]

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Ok wait yeah I was pretty vague- I mean like girls who are kind of all over the place, have a ton of interests and hobbies and their brains are going a mile a minute, always talking about something random, or they have a lot of energy. I'm like this most of the time in public and a lot of people have said that im "extra" or "overwhelming"

[MrOracle]

There exit some chaotic men who find chaotic girls attractive, because it's what they are used to. But those men are often criminals and/or addicts and often come from terrible family situations, so their chaos usually ends up spilling over onto the girl, or the guy encourages the girl to get into trouble rather than trying to keep her away from it.

The majority of men, especially those over about 25, value their peace and tend to only bring women into their lives if she can bring him peace. Men have to deal with the world at work, and they want to come home to peace, not something they must also manage and solve.

Younger guys don't always figure that out early on, so they are more willing to accept chaos in their teens and early 20s, but most have enough experience by their mid-20s not to invite chaos into their lives.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Guys, as a whole, are into everyone and no one. Into every single personality option. What's even more complicated with your question is how "too much" means nothing clear.

So, more context please. Much more.

[Ry1223]

Ok wait yeah I was pretty vague- I mean like girls who are kind of all over the place, have a ton of interests and hobbies and their brains are going a mile a minute, always talking about something random, or they have a lot of energy. I'm like this most of the time in public and a lot of people have said that im "extra" or "overwhelming"

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Thanks, that's much clearer now.

I've been with such personality at 19yo, it didn't last and that's on me because I messed up but I loved her personality. And I am in a relationship with such personality, right now, I love these traits of her as well.

From what I see around me, I see such personalities having relationships and all, like everyone else. It just needs someone to pair with that "extra", and appreciate it for what it is: Cure to boredom lol

[Ry1223]

Ok thank you

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Men will find any reason not to date a woman. Just be you. The right guy will like it

[Ry1223]

Ok thank you

[Abbycado]

How do you mean too much?

[Ry1223]

Ok wait yeah I was pretty vague- I mean like girls who are kind of all over the place, have a ton of interests and hobbies and their brains are going a mile a minute, always talking about something random, or they have a lot of energy. I'm like this most of the time in public and a lot of people have said that im "extra" or "overwhelming"

[Abbycado]

No, not exactly. Takes the same type of guy. I’m into a lot and in school. boyfriend is the same. Great minds think alike, right?

[Ry1223]

Yeah, thanks

[888theGreat]

You mean lots of make up, showing their tits or low skirt showing their baby maker ovens? Younger women do that a lot these day. Most look like whores really.

[Abbycado]

Ty for mho!

[whosnumber_1]

No I think that's great! To me that's attractive. What isn't attractive is women who are self centered or "high maintenance"

I have always liked people with passions and interests

[Ry1223]

Ok thanks

[Alex-Snow]

What do you mean by too much? That can mean a lot of things.

[Ry1223]

It's in the update

[Alex-Snow]

For some it can be overwhelming but I see a girl like that having energy and a fun personality

[Ry1223]

Ok thanks

[Iron_Man]

I like girls that can settle down that dont have a million things on their mind and they’re always on the run and they never have time for anything else. that causes a lot of stress anyway

[Staximus]

Girls like that are ok as long as they know how to relax

[In_Trance]

Not sure what you mean by that

[Ry1223]

Ok wait yeah I was pretty vague- I mean like girls who are kind of all over the place, have a ton of interests and hobbies and their brains are going a mile a minute, always talking about something random, or they have a lot of energy. I'm like this most of the time in public and a lot of people have said that im "extra" or "overwhelming"

[In_Trance]

For every type of girl and every type of personality, there's a guy out there dying to be with her

[Ry1223]

Ok thank you

[Anonymous]

Depends on too much what?

[Ry1223]

Ok wait yeah I was pretty vague- I mean like girls who are kind of all over the place, have a ton of interests and hobbies and their brains are going a mile a minute, always talking about something random, or they have a lot of energy. I'm like this most of the time in public and a lot of people have said that im "extra" or "overwhelming"

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, that'a not a problem if the guy really likes you.

[Ry1223]

Ok thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome

[Nikki1989]

Too much of what?

[Ry1223]

Ok wait yeah I was pretty vague- I mean like girls who are kind of all over the place, have a ton of interests and hobbies and their brains are going a mile a minute, always talking about something random, or they have a lot of energy. I'm like this most of the time in public and a lot of people have said that im "extra" or "overwhelming"

[Anonymous]

Everyone has a type so some will be and some won't

[oldman26]

What is too much, do you mean high maintenance

[TonyMetal___86]

Too much like what?

[Ry1223]

It's in the update

[TonyMetal___86]

Oh ok, well my answer is: nope i'm not into them...

[dudeinohio]

Id say yes.