What is wrong with him?

[Anonymous]

I have this one boxer friend who likes to put women down. I have no interest in him, but the other day he was trying to rile me up in a peculiar way by showing me pictures of his baby son. When we first met, he lied to me about having a wife, so this was sort of a follow-up to that, because she was pregnant then. I mean, how am I thirsty just because I didn’t know you had a wife? If I don’t know, I assume you’re free to date.

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2 mo

Why does he even assume I want to have kids with him?

[WhitneySnow]

Were you interested in him before you knew he was married?

[Asker]

we were sort of like messing around

[WhitneySnow]

Oh ok. At least you stopped when you found out he was married.

[Asker]

The other day, I had a guy follow me onto the bus, and then he tried to frame it like I’m thirsty, lmao. Yes, I liked him, but I said, ‘Bye, I guess maybe we’ll see each other again.’ So this is yet another instance.

[WhitneySnow]

Did you mess around with him too?

[Asker]

I said "bye", didn't I

[WhitneySnow]

So that’s a yes. I don’t judge people, but you do seem pretty affectionate.

[Asker]

Well that is true

[Anonymous]

He's likely just confused or inconsistent. Give him space and see if he corrects his behavior.