What does it really mean if a guy invites you to his place for dinner?

[PinkSchmetterling]

We met at a party

[OneViewpoint]

It could mean anything. LOL, I've invited women over to my house for dinner literally because I wanted to show them I can do more than open a can of soup. 🤣 Or, I just wanted to show them how I live and get a reaction to my admittedly very masculine vibe in my furniture, etc. No expectation of sex. Just a quiet place to talk and a nice home cooked meal by... gasp... a guy. 😱 If it turns romantic, fine. If it doesn't, fine.

But I get that every guy isn't like that. And a woman can never be certain what's she's getting herself into. And women can never be too careful. Better safe than sorry. And so on.

After seeing that "deer in the headlights look" a few times I generally don't make that offer or ask her over at all. Nor will I agree to go to her place. Dating on neutral ground only in noisy restaurants and bars or outdoors at a beach or hiking trail. Often just meeting up with groups. Then I get the... "he's not willing to commit" or "he's not moving the relationship forward" speech.

Guys cannot win. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I suck at reading your minds.

[Alex-Snow]

It means he wants to get to know you better and to possibly impress you with his cooking. Don't overthink it. I know you must be thinking he is doing it for sex. I'm sure he would love that but I think he wants to get to know you. Do you like the guy? Is he around your age?
If you go, let a friend know where and when you are going just to be safe.

[Natasha1995]

Very sound advice, Alex.

[Mark_Est]

And what is the friend going to do when she is get used or killed or etc at some randoms place? What utter nonsense. He knows that this woman is low value and low IQ to even make this offer. And of course he mainly wants to just f her.

[Natasha1995]

@Mark_Est I would advise anyone on a first date to go to a place that is 'neutral', like a restaurant. Failing that, it's still better to accept an invitation at his place than inviting a guy over at your place. That's about the worst thing you can do.

[Mark_Est]

No, it 100% worse to go their place. Nobody will kidnap or SA you at your place. They feel comfortable in their place. Only low IQ women go to some randoms place. Even few dates aren't enaugh. That is exactly how you women get into trouble and/or dead.

[Alex-Snow]

Thanks for the MHO

[PinkSchmetterling]

@Alex-Snow You’re welcome ☺️💋

[Alex-Snow]

Thanks Pink... please stay in touch

[beenherebefore]

Is this the first encounter after you guys met at a party? If yes, I think is a bit too soon to be going to his house for dinner or whatever because to me it comes off as he's expecting something else after dinner.

[queenofcardio]

It literally could mean anything. He wants to spend alone time with you.

You won’t know for sure what his intentions are unless you ask for clarification.

[WhitneySnow]

Could be legit or could be an excuse for sex

[PinkSchmetterling]

@WhitneySnow we haven’t gone out before

[WhitneySnow]

Probably an excuse for sex. Or at the very least he’s being cheap.

[PinkSchmetterling]

He’s a bit older and already working. I don’t think he’s being cheap. You really think it’s for sex?

[WhitneySnow]

Yes. I would never go over a guy’s house for a first date. Too much of a risk he’d try something.

[ohsheeT]

It means he likes to cook he wants to cook you something nice he wants to relax with you get cozy and see if things can happen he likes being around you

[Staximus]

If you haven’t had sex with him yet it means he wants to have sex. If you already have then it means dinner and sex.

[PinkSchmetterling]

@staximus Sounds like I’m screwed either way lol

[bowenw]

It could be purely innocent, but it's not a good idea to be alone with a stranger. If you are interested in him, suggest doing something in public, like meeting for lunch or coffee.

[AgentG111]

Several reasons, if you show up you are curious about him, his place, his living conditions and are he lives, can he cook for you and something delicious. It's also can he win you over to be his, lover or girlfriend or wife or LTR.

[Anonymous]

I would not go to someone's I didn't know but if someone I know asks I know he would like it to turn into sex, and sometimes it does, and sometimes it does at another time.

[Anonymous]

An invitation to a guy's place for dinner usually means he wants to get to know you better in a private, comfortable, and intimate setting, often with the hope of initiating physical intimacy.

[DryGermanGuy]

That depends on if his name is Joe Sixpack or Hannibal Lecter.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

You should go if you're single. Is you choose not to be with him help him finds another girl as we men are struggling with that nowadays.

[Iron_Man]

Sex after you digest your dinner. But first comes the wine to loosen you up. Don’t most guys do this they have a plan?

[Iron_Man]

I read your other comment talking to her. I would highly recommend that you canceled the date because you know what’s gonna happen after you eat dinner.

[ilistengood]

Well the only thing I come up with is he thinks he can cook

[Bklynbadboy12]

Its means your the dessert!

[PinkSchmetterling]

@bklynbadboy12 What would you call that?

[Bklynbadboy12]

That means when you get there at some point he's gonna tey to have sex with you. Are you okay with that? If your not then do go meet up for dinner or coffee

[PinkSchmetterling]

@bklynbadboy12 But what would you call the dish, having me for dessert?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Hot frosted covered bunzzz!!!😉😉😉😉

[PinkSchmetterling]

@bklynbadboy12 Sweet! But if I had frosting on my buns, wouldn’t I get banned or censored or something? A few people warned me. I think they’re surprised I haven’t been already lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yeah you probably would

[Siajanua2027]

He is hoping to get "lucky"

[PinkSchmetterling]

@Siajanua2027 That appears to be the consensus 😔

[RichardCranium6201]

He wants you to spend the night

[RichardCranium6201]

Well i hope u 2 have a crazy wonderful night tonight. ( if u 2 r meeting up).

[RedInnocent69]

You’re so getting laid 😂

[FenixG45]

He wants you, Silly girl!

[Taurus_Woman]

Don't go...

[Anonymous]

It probably means he likes you.

[Caurav1997]

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