Was he trying to see if it was me?

[Anonymous]

So a few days ago I saw my former crush after 15 years he noticed me when he looked at me at the store we were at cause he looked a little longer than most men would which is usually a glance. I didn't think I would see at all in my life and I did. I feel he was looking at me and smiling softly at me just to see how I would react but I was also with my husband and kids.

[HollyK21]

Ma’am, it’s been 15 years since you had this crush — let it go. We can make guesses and interpretations, but ultimately we cannot tell you what was on his mind when he saw you, only he can provide that. On top of that, you simply should not care this much. You’ve got your own family, and we was just a crush ages ago. Maybe this is your younger self wanting some sort of validation, but you do not need that. You’ve got a husband who should be providing all the validation you need and if he’s not then that’s another problem.

[HollyK21]

**he was just a crush

[Calyptomaniac]

And what difference does it make if he was or wasn't? Let it go and get back to your family

[bowenw]

It sounds like he was trying to see if it was you. If you smiled back it probably confirmed to him that it was you.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Anonymous]

Girl you're married, stop thinking about another man

[Anonymous]

That sounds like my nightmare.