Why would a happily married man say another woman is beautiful and look at her all the time?

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Med_guy1978 · Accepted Answer

In my opinion, a happy man or be it a happy woman will always look. Why shouldn't they? There will always be cute guys and cute chicks around. I guess there's a kinda disrespectful way of doing it but to admire beauty is fine. You have to start from yourself, admitting one is not the most attractive man or woman on the planet and your partner will see someone attractive and it will catch his or her attention. Then some purposely try to make the other jealous but that's a different ball game. Treat your other half like your best friend who is free and relaxed in all circumstances. Once you start overreacting and punishing them it's not love but a tyrannical relationship. A normal person would in most cases feel slightly jealous but one must control their emotions. From my experience, men do it blatantly as we're honest and stupid creatures. Women do it inconspicuously unless they're trying to make their man jealous.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well only he can answer this

Just like his girlfriend is the only one that makes the choice to trust him or not to believe in him or not

And if she cannot trust him she should get out of the relationship

But if she can trust him then she knows him she knows he's a man he's going to look but she also knows that he's always coming home to her

But if you can't come home to her and make her feel that he is in totally in love with her and give her google eyes and he's messing up big time

And then you always have the people in marriage that you happily married a couple different ways and if it's not on the same page then well somebody
Needs to get it on the same page

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Men in general are preying on women, regardless whether they are married, in a relationship or not. That is part of their genes and DNA to prey on women. This has been like that since the dawn of mankind. Women were never asked whether they want to be preyed on, they only had to agree or be sacrificed, killed or raped if they disagreed. This concept is as old as humanity is.

A man will always look at another woman and lust over her even practically when he is on his deathbed. This is how men are programmed to be and they take this excuse for their behaviors.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Men can be super hapoy and love the setup of his marriage (dinner made, laundry done, house cleaned, agreeable wife) but still be sexually attracted to other women, and want them. Is it right? NO. But its so common. Thats why men usually dont divorce. He has it too good. Theyed keep their wife and sleep with girls on the side in their perfect world.

objective_calendar · Answer

The compliment by itself doesn't mean anything. People say stuff all the time. Look at their actions. Since he apparently looks at her all the time so yeah that action now accompanied by the compliment strongly shows he finds her attractive.

Why would a happily married man be disloyal? You can be happily married and still cheat on your spouse (although here there's no way to know if he has cheated or not). A guy who's miserable because of his wife can feel he's justified to cheat on her. A guy who's happily married can still feel lustful to cheat on her. Both cases the guys don't care how their actions will affect their partners.

If you're in a monogamous relationship no matter how "difficult" your partner may seem it's still a conscious decision of yours to cheat on them instead of breaking things off or working on fixing the relationship. You aren't ever forced by your circumstances so much so that your back is to the wall and now you have no other choice but to cheat. It's never down to an either/or scenario.

DishLady · Answer

There's nothing wrong with looking as long as they're not pursuing anything with other women. Guys are just visual.

For example: I was walking with a guy friend yesterday. He was talking to me and would pause for a split second then resume his conversation. Every time he did that he was scoping out a new gal. Nothing particularly interesting or appealing about the gal, but I started spotting the gals as I noticed the pauses... it was a little funny. After about 5min of this I commented on one of the gals and he said "Yeah" then snapped his head around to look at me and apologized. I laughed a little bc it was very amusing to watch. The point is that EVEN a happily-married man will "register" that a pretty gal is present. No need to get upset or jealous.

Anonymous · Answer

Because he has eyes to see w. I mean you’ve never thought another man was handsome? Not saying that you’d go sleep w him but I’m sure a lot of us can acknowledge whether another female or male is pretty or handsome. Nothing wrong w that. Hell I thought Salma Hayek was the hottest woman alive. As for him looking, nothing says men or women can’t look at another person they find attractive. The other thing is men can separate their feelings from their wives if he’s checking out a girl. I’m not saying it’s right but a man can cheat w out no emotions invoked then still go back to his wife loving her just as much as he did before he cheated. Most women can’t do that. Again I’m not saying cheating is right, but that’s one thing most men have the ability to do unlike a majority of women. Being married doesn’t mean you automatically stop looking at other women.

realbiggrin · Answer

Does he not look at you? I think if he doesn't go out alone or tilt his phone away from you so you can't see what he is doing your probably okay.
At the same time if he doesn't let it go and he mentions it to the point of it being rude to you or her... tell him you get it, you already know what he thinks and to get back in his lane shit.

Purpleronnie · Answer

It sounds ridiculous imagining that it’s “ all the time “ I’m sure that’s almost never the case. Sounds like a stupid exaggeration.

Men looking at beautiful women and women looking at beautiful men will always happen it has nothing to do with being happily married.

Looking doesn’t mean there is intent on doing anything more.

AviatorTom · Answer

Just because a guy is married doesn't mean he stops looking. She is probably beautiful, and he enjoys looking at her. Are you implying that you, a woman, doesn't enjoy looking at a handsome man?

whocares1972 · Answer

First of all who are you? The wife or the girlfriend? I am assuming you are the wife, and you are assuming your husband is happily married? Or, you have nothing to do with this relationship and you are causing unnecessary drama for someone else 🤔

MissSunshine2 · Answer

I would think that he shouldn’t be doing that. Once or twice, perhaps. Guys look. I’m sure you are still attracted to other guys. I’d be talking to him directly about this.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Because he’s not that happy. Either that or he is happy but just wants to get laid and hopes she’ll fall for it.

Finchie40 · Answer

Because he finds her beautiful and he probably isn’t that happily married

bowenw · Answer

He many simply find her attractive or there may be more going on, like he wants to have an affair with her or more.

LiamS95 · Answer

Possibl because his wife stopped taking care of herself added 30 pounds to that sexy slim body she used to have, quite dressing sexy and carefully applying makeup, nail polish... etc...

andreasderjuengere · Answer

For visual inspiration. I often admire nice motorbikes. That does not mean that I'll buy them.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

To say beautiful isn't wrong but to look at her all the time is surely wrong! He's a womanizer i guess...

goaded · Answer

Because she's beautiful. The question is would he leave his wife for her?

genericname85 · Answer

Being happily married doesn't stop you from finding others attractive.

Iron_Man · Answer

Because he will probably cheat on his wife and that’s not good

Anonymous · Answer

His heart is not with the single person like he is married but he finds someone attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing wrong with it Women likes when someone notice them

NathanDavis · Answer

what's the context here?

slatyb · Answer

Because he thinks she is beautiful.

_Jenny_ · Answer

Men literally lust after me too 💃

Massageman · Answer

because he's honest?

Anonymous · Answer

He doesn't have very good self control.

ThisSiteSux · Answer

He's checked out. American women are awful.

Godihateyou · Answer

His wife is is a bitch and he's ready to move on

In_Trance · Answer

He's probably not happily married

Cw992 · Answer

Because he's attracted to her?

MasterKS · Answer

wants to change taste.

jahaims · Answer

He is immature

Mathiew · Answer

She won't be happy!

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