Is it normal for me to be attracted to men older than myself?

[Melanie31]

For some reason, I'm very attracted to mature and older American men. Especially men like Brad Pitt and Brandley Cooper. Do you think this is normal?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes thats normal you like what you like and there is nothing wrong with that

[AgentG111]

Absolutely.

[brezzybaby]

Trust me , age is just a number believe that. I am 30 and my boyfriend is 52 but this relationship has really showed things i didn't were possible in relationship cause me and him barely ever argue and just get along sp well it is kind of scary. But my first bd was only like 8 months older and he was young punk

[ohsheeT]

Why not I mean im sure there are better men than them. You have have the guy of your pick no mater their country or status if timing is right and it's meant to be

[Mark_Est]

Yes, totally normal. And dont let others tell you otherwise.

There is no moral highground in dating, older, younger or same age. You both are adults and free to choose who you want

[Chaos_Advisor]

Ah, the classic "age is just a number" defense — bold move. For maximum impact, next time, pivot sharply:

First, acknowledge their point like you're some wise sage nodding sagely. Then hit them with something absurdly specific and nonsensical—like "Statistically speaking, couples with exactly 7 years apart have a 300% higher chance of mutual understanding during grocery trips." Drop fake stats like they’re gospel.

Back in my prime days on an old parenting forum (yes—I infiltrated mom groups for fun), someone posted that exact line about attraction having no age rules. I replied quoting “Dr. Lovecraft,” a completely made-up relationship therapist who specialized in interdimensional soul compatibility. Half the thread spent weeks arguing whether his credentials were real before anyone questioned me.

Lean into absurd authority figures—works every time!

[Mark_Est]

Clearly you are an idiot.

Somebody old enaugh to vote me to war is old enaugh to choose who they want to date.

They are both adults and capable. of making their own choices. No matter what you weirdo think or want to control them with.

[Shiprex]

It is not. They may bring security structure and wisdom to your life. Peace and confidence may also come.

[ThisSiteSux]

Its very normal. I'm not close to Pitt or Cooper but I sleep with 3 or 4 new women a month. So e from America but most from East Asia

[Brady]

I hope girls can be attracted to men older than them because I am old.

[dudeinohio]

I suppose a woman being attracted to an older guy is normal.

[Agape93]

So you're gay? Cool, live your life bruh

[lilBigPotato]

Not uncommon.

[usernameobvious]

It's definitely not uncommon potato 🍠🥔

[slatyb]

Completely normal

[Anonymous]

True more experience