Why do some men assume a woman going to his hotel room means sex?

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Effably · Answer

I'll go out on a limb and say that if I went to a hotelroom with a woman and I did not assume that we'd be having sex she would be far more insulted than if I do.

I have followed a woman home once to see her rock collection! We did in fact end up watching her collection of rocks. It was very wholesome. Lots of shiny and cool shaped rocks. Any geologist would have been amazed. I was amused.

Turned out afterwards it was meant to be an excuse and she did intend for other things. But she got swept up with her own enthusiasm and I was certainly not going to deny myself a fun story.

purplepoppy · Answer

I hate that. I went with a guy to his hotel room last night purely with the intention of getting interior decorating inspiration and to enjoy the complimentary sachets of coffee and UHT milk. I was admiring the trouser press and how you could hardly smell the urine in the kettle when he tried it on. I told him I wasn't that sort of woman and left immediately with 2 bath towels.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Many hotel rooms do not allow for much other activities.

Most hotels also frown upon guests having sex in the lobby, the swimming pool, car park and such; so: where else than in the hotel room can one possibly go?

We don't want our personal lady guest to feel bored and as entertainment is limited, we volunteer to compensate for the lack of luxuries.

From the descriptions in other posts here I can see that it is not common knowledge that some hotel rooms outside of slum areas, and away from the minimum price level have:

- twin beds

- couch, or seating group

- writing desk

- a balcony or terrace with a view

... which of course also offer opportunities to fornicate. But not necessarily so.

slatyb · Answer

Depending on the circumstances, when someone invites you into their home or bedroom, it's generally understood that it's an invitation for sex. I was leaving a bar last week at closing time, my friends had already settled and left. There was one other guy there, we had a brief chat, paid and walked out. He invited me to go with him to his apartment. He didn't want to show me his model trains. I just said truthfully that my wife was waiting for me in bed across the street.

Bricealan · Answer

@thelovelywoman When women drag me to a hotel after a sexless date night, I am certain that they want to sit on my face for the rest of the night, or at the least, sit on my endlessly erect 7" penis for several hours until they satisfy their carnal desires!!

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Smegskull · Answer

Because the only thing in the room is a bed...

I could understand if a woman is going to his house she might not be thinking of sex, maybe sit in his garden, stay for dinner, watch a movie, etc. There are other things to do there... But a hotel room!

MissSunshine2 · Answer

Men and their urges lol. some things never change.

Likes2drive · Answer

It’s pretty much assumed that that’s what’s going to be going on since it’s just one room with a bed and a TV and a mini bar that probably once you start drinking it’s going to lead to sex anyway so unless it’s communicated that you’re only going in there to hang out and talk it’s going to be naturally assumed that sex is going to take place

usernameobvious · Answer

What else would they do back at the hotel room if they're not just friends and if they're not just work colleagues and if they're not just whatever else that isn't romantic 🥲🫠

molonski2 · Answer

Because why else would they be going there? To check out the view? Ambiance? Discuss politics?  Dave the planet?

Lliam · Answer

What else are a man and woman going to do in a hotel room, watch TV? If she goes to his room, it is assumed that she's up for steamy sex. What kind of girl would think otherwise?

Micheal6918 · Answer

Because that is how human being thinks and feel whenever they see a man and a woman together in an hotel

soe11 · Answer

Those are narrow minded person.  If it's yes then nothing wrong with it. some occasion me and my girlfriend go for sex too.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Because the probability of sex under such circumstances is around 99%.

loveyouoak · Answer

Isn't it obvious? Otherwise, why would a woman be in his hotel room?

Calyptomaniac · Answer

In your case, because you've made it obvious that's what your life revolves around already

AviatorTom · Answer

That's only SOME men. MOST men correctly know that she is wanting sex.

jshm2 · Answer

Because she certainly isn't going there to clean it, or scrub his back while he showers...

MariaEve · Answer

No, this means they will play hide-and-seek lol.

loveslongnails · Answer

You're leaving out 99% of the context. Who knows?

Staximus · Answer

That’s exactly what it means you old skeezer

Ebullient232432 · Answer

Because they love to sex and they only thing that going to a hotel room is only for sex

glennos89 · Answer

What else are you going to do in a hotel room?

Alex-Snow · Answer

What else would they do?

Paige2006 · Answer

Because it does

LC75LC71 · Answer

Because he merely assumed.

Anonymous · Answer

Because in your case it does.

dudeinohio · Answer

That's what usually happens

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s what they think

kinks1951 · Answer

Why else go

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