Why do some men assume a woman going to his hotel room means sex?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because he assumes that’s what she wants as well , thinking since he has a hotel room that she would want to have sex with him because of it. Most people automatically assume someone wants to have sex with them because they got a hotel room , Girls’ do this as well , when my one female
Friend broke up with her boyfriend and left his house , she got a hotel room and then called me asking me to come see her., she told me they broke up and that she now has a nice hotel room that she would love for me to come join her, so I was single at the time and I wasn’t really doing much , so I said sure and we ended up screwing all night So bottomline , a lot of sex occurs in hotels , and a lot of cheating and affairs occur there as well. I can’t tell you how many times I stayed at hotels just for work purposes , and I heard people having sex all night long in the rooms next to me , don’t get me wrong , I wished I was having sex as well 😂because it gets boring as hell sometimes being in a hotel all by yourself , especially when I am in an area I don’t know to much about, cuz I am there for work. I would try to find things to do on my downtime, instead of just sitting in the hotel room doing nothing , so sometimes I would find a bar restaurant to mingle with people and drink and eat , and possibly meet a beautiful girl that would want to come back to the hotel with me. And I did sometimes , but not every time lol The one girl I met and slept with was a waitress at the bar restaurant next to my hotel , her and I hit it off and I told her why I was there and that I will be in town every Monday through Friday for the next month , so she eventually came back to my hotel room and we had sex on a regular basis every time I was in town for work. She was recently divorced and just looking for a good time as well. So it worked out and since I knew I was going to see her , I started to enjoy going there for work lol

Effably · Accepted Answer

I'll go out on a limb and say that if I went to a hotelroom with a woman and I did not assume that we'd be having sex she would be far more insulted than if I do.

I have followed a woman home once to see her rock collection! We did in fact end up watching her collection of rocks. It was very wholesome. Lots of shiny and cool shaped rocks. Any geologist would have been amazed. I was amused.

Turned out afterwards it was meant to be an excuse and she did intend for other things. But she got swept up with her own enthusiasm and I was certainly not going to deny myself a fun story.

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

I hate that. I went with a guy to his hotel room last night purely with the intention of getting interior decorating inspiration and to enjoy the complimentary sachets of coffee and UHT milk. I was admiring the trouser press and how you could hardly smell the urine in the kettle when he tried it on. I told him I wasn't that sort of woman and left immediately with 2 bath towels.

MissSunshine2 · Accepted Answer

Men and their urges lol. some things never change.

texasgirl012 · Answer

Because that's the social convention. If you want to stay safe, don't guy to a guy's hotel room unless you plan to have sex with him. And don't make the mistake of going when you haven't decided, either. And if it's someone you just met, make sure he has exactly what you want before you go, because if it's something like the size you need, he's probably lying. And he'll try to push you into it or even force you if you make the mistake of being alone with him before you discover the lie. The assumption is part of the whole package of trying to push women into sex. So if you understand that, then you know never to go unless you plan on it. Especially if it's something physical, like you need a certain size, then you definitely can't go to room and expect it to end well if he doesn't measure up. Just grope him instead because you can't trust his words - not even the Blacks you are sure are really big, and certainly not a lot of the white guys. And you don't want to face that pressure of having to say no in that situation, because a lot of men won't accept it. Better to do the really unconventional thing and get the info you need. And don't even think you can make the deal, "look, I'm coming to your hotel room, but it doesn't mean I'm saying yes to sex." It's way too risky when you can just decide that in advance.

Lesbologist · Answer

Because you can't see the drugs in her pockets?

I would assume it because in my life experience... massive drug fests and/or fuck fests are the purpose of hotels outside of a place to sleep while traveling. I keep my assumptions to myself so I don't think it hurts anyone, but yeah, I'm assuming she's going there for something. Most hotel rooms don't have much else to do in there. What... are they going to watch Jeapordy and Wheel of Fortione while they play a game of parcheesi? Maybe I'll assume the answer is yes if they look the geezed out part.

Why do some men assume a woman going to his hotel room means sex?

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Many hotel rooms do not allow for much other activities.

Most hotels also frown upon guests having sex in the lobby, the swimming pool, car park and such; so: where else than in the hotel room can one possibly go?

We don't want our personal lady guest to feel bored and as entertainment is limited, we volunteer to compensate for the lack of luxuries.

From the descriptions in other posts here I can see that it is not common knowledge that some hotel rooms outside of slum areas, and away from the minimum price level have:

- twin beds

- couch, or seating group

- writing desk

- a balcony or terrace with a view

... which of course also offer opportunities to fornicate. But not necessarily so.

236color · Answer

I'm sorry, but it is true that women have to be more careful than men. I personally would not invite a woman to my hotel room unless I wanted to have sex with her. If I intended to have a platonic interaction with her, I would consider such an invitation too suggestive.

Marshast · Answer

At this point stop giving everyone the benefit of the doubt. I learned even that is a projection of self on to another even thinking people in general can do better. If it’s as narrow as it seems, describe, then it is as narrow it might as well be….! Everything is at face value, until proven otherwise. Don’t even try to be understood, explain, just F leave!

slatyb · Answer

Depending on the circumstances, when someone invites you into their home or bedroom, it's generally understood that it's an invitation for sex. I was leaving a bar last week at closing time, my friends had already settled and left. There was one other guy there, we had a brief chat, paid and walked out. He invited me to go with him to his apartment. He didn't want to show me his model trains. I just said truthfully that my wife was waiting for me in bed across the street.

Smegskull · Answer

Because the only thing in the room is a bed...

I could understand if a woman is going to his house she might not be thinking of sex, maybe sit in his garden, stay for dinner, watch a movie, etc. There are other things to do there... But a hotel room!

Anonymous · Answer

Not always, but it's an assumption many people make because a hotel room offers privacy. In my own experience, my ex came to my hotel late at night while her parents were asleep, and yes, we were intimate. But that doesn't mean every woman who enters a man's hotel room is agreeing to sex. Consent is never implied by the location. It has to be communicated.

Likes2drive · Answer

It’s pretty much assumed that that’s what’s going to be going on since it’s just one room with a bed and a TV and a mini bar that probably once you start drinking it’s going to lead to sex anyway so unless it’s communicated that you’re only going in there to hang out and talk it’s going to be naturally assumed that sex is going to take place

Anonymous · Answer

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usernameobvious · Answer

What else would they do back at the hotel room if they're not just friends and if they're not just work colleagues and if they're not just whatever else that isn't romantic 🥲🫠

molonski2 · Answer

Because why else would they be going there? To check out the view? Ambiance? Discuss politics?  Dave the planet?

Lliam · Answer

What else are a man and woman going to do in a hotel room, watch TV? If she goes to his room, it is assumed that she's up for steamy sex. What kind of girl would think otherwise?

loveyouoak · Answer

Isn't it obvious? Otherwise, why would a woman be in his hotel room?

RavVid · Answer

Because it usually does. Not much in a hotel room other than a minibar and a bed. The minibar is a precursor for the bed anyway.

Micheal6918 · Answer

Because that is how human being thinks and feel whenever they see a man and a woman together in an hotel

soe11 · Answer

Those are narrow minded person.  If it's yes then nothing wrong with it. some occasion me and my girlfriend go for sex too.

PinkNoir · Answer

Because in most cases it does. Still they should confirm with her.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Because the probability of sex under such circumstances is around 99%.

Calyptomaniac · Answer

In your case, because you've made it obvious that's what your life revolves around already

DonaldDarko · Answer

Low IQ. We could be playing Monopoly for all I care but I have a normal frontal lobe.

AviatorTom · Answer

That's only SOME men. MOST men correctly know that she is wanting sex.

jshm2 · Answer

Because she certainly isn't going there to clean it, or scrub his back while he showers...

MariaEve · Answer

No, this means they will play hide-and-seek lol.

loveslongnails · Answer

You're leaving out 99% of the context. Who knows?

Limited_Edition5 · Answer

Cause it’s one of the places. Especially if they are stepping out.

Staximus · Answer

That’s exactly what it means you old skeezer

ThisSiteSux · Answer

Because I didn't pay to talk about her fucking hobbies

yehudamig · Answer

Why would you go to his hotel room if he invites you? meet at the lobby or something. It invites sex.

Ebullient232432 · Answer

Because they love to sex and they only thing that going to a hotel room is only for sex

glennos89 · Answer

What else are you going to do in a hotel room?

Paige2006 · Answer

Because it does

Alex-Snow · Answer

What else would they do?

_Jenny_ · Answer

It usually does mean sex

LC75LC71 · Answer

Because he merely assumed.

Anonymous · Answer

Because in your case it does.

dudeinohio · Answer

That's what usually happens

Anonymous · Answer

Depends largely on the context.

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s what they think

dougeats · Answer

because in most cases it does mean sex

DirtyOldMan777 · Answer

why else would she go?

thinkerx · Answer

Tell me a reason to go hotel except sex

Pterodon · Answer

Why else would you go?

4ngelic · Answer

I mean...

Anonymous · Answer

Because such men are often horny.

Eleni1998 · Answer

She probably the side piece.

imemma12 · Answer

sounds like it to me

kinks1951 · Answer

Why else go

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