Why would a shy guy act rude toward the girl he actually likes?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

A shy guy might act rude because he is overwhelmed by nervousness and doesn't know how to handle his emotions. This often manifests as an immature defense mechanism to hide his feelings, overcompensate for his insecurities, or mask an intense fear of rejection.

[Tyler006]

Some guys like a girl and get nervous and a way that he’s self sabotages His self by being rude to the woman that he likes that way, she might not pay him any attention in a relationship stance. In that way, he doesn’t have to face the fear of talking to her.

[beenherebefore]

Maybe he doesn0t know how to deal with his feelings.

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe he doesn’t like her or he has a girlfriend

[Asker]

He said he have a crush on her

[WhitneySnow]

No idea. What exactly did he say? How was he rude to her?

Is this girl you?

[Asker]

He said I liked you and I was shy. yeah he was rude at first

[WhitneySnow]

Ok. How was he rude. Like what did he say?

[Asker]

He used to be unfriendly and mean for no reason

[WhitneySnow]

That is strange. Some guys will do that with girls they like. No clue why. A boy called my friend frog face in the third grade and it cost him a date when he asked her out in high school.

Anyway. Do you like him back?

[Asker]

Yeah I did but I noticed I keep attracting guys like that

[WhitneySnow]

Give him another chance. He was probably just nervous. If he does it again then block him.

[genericname85]

cause when you act rude, you can't be hurt for being vulnerable. showing huw much you like her opens you up for rejection and dismissal which is painfull. so to avoid that, some people choose to be rude.

[Anonymous]

It could be unintentional. He could just be shy and not want her to know how much he is into her..

[Alex-Snow]

He may be insecure and that is how the deals with it. What does he do that is rude? How old is he?

[Danny_dan92]

Doesn’t make sense.




Or he’s just temperamental

[canamlusciouslad73]

His bashfulness makes it difficult for him to approach a lady as a more confident man would.

[Mark_Est]

Why do you think he even likes her?

[Iron_Man]

to get her attention even Grown men do it

[Asker]

Yikes

[Iron_Man]

Yeah, they do it

[jahaims]

He doesn't know how to act

[Anonymous]

That makes no sense.

[413kim]

Maybe he doesn't

[kinks1951]

Nervous