I think that it can potentially be seen as rudeness when it is not meant to be. Occasionally a girl might not know what to say and get really awkward and do something else like fiddle or talk to someone else. However, if she is not answering when the guy talks to her then I would see this as rude or maybe she isn't interested and giving him the cold shoulder I find a little unusal also. Keep in mind though that this is different for every girl, we all express our emotions and feelings in different ways - maybe that's why they call us complicated!
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Oh, wow, that sounds EXACTLY like me. I'm extremely shy, and that's totally normal for me to do when I'm around a guy I like. I can hardly talk to or look at him. I don't think she's trying to be rude. Just relax around her and you know, let her relax, too. If the guy just starts blabbering at me, than I normally just ignore him or nod or whatever. But just go up to her and say hey a few times and try to get to know her. Hope I helped!
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Hm I'm definitely able to get your point.
It's not like I am really shy, but I tend to get mean too. But it's just in general, not something specific for the guy I'd like... I think it's not a good idea to only base your opinion on this, checking out for some more reactions sounds better to me.
Yes, shy girls do that. I'm a shy girl and it's really hard to face the guy I like, so I just act as if I'm ignoring him but I'm 100% conscious of his presence. She probably likes you but it's afraid of showing it too much and get a rejection. Have patience, be around her and make her feel comfortable. With the time, she will be more outgoing with you. Good Luck ;)
It really depends on the girl. If by 'cold shoulder' you mean trying not to face you... And the ignoring needs a little elaboration, but I'd say she likes you. By what you've assumed, I'd say you're right. Also, this seems to be the issue with most people, is that they don't think of simply asking and being direct. I know it's awkward to do so, but you won't get far if you don't.
I hope this helped. Good luck =)
I used to be painfully shy--and nice-- to the point of being unable to stand up for myself. This would be how I turned guys down back then. The smile was my extremely awkward way of saying "I like you, so don't think I'm mean, but I'm not interested."
Hmm hard to tell because if I'm not interested in a guy I'll avoid his presence but if he talks to me I try to keep it short and I have a fake smile on my face with a hint of annoyance.
Now if I like a guy I'm hella awkward and kind of stalkerish. I'll be staring but once he's in close proximity I walk the other way out of fear of rejection I guess. I don't mean to be rude and ignore him but I'd rather run away than face him.
Usually I walk right past him because he didn't say hi first
I am so uncomfortable around guys that I really like that I am rude. I don't mean to be though! It sounds as though this is the case. Just stay persistent and joke around a little, she'll probably open up eventually.
sometimes. thought you have to be able to distinguish if they really don't like you or they're just scarrred/shy. do you do things that make people angry or jealous? if not, and most people think your a nice guy then she probably likes you.
I don't think this girl is particularly interested in you, whom ever she is.
I am considered shy, but if a guy I liked were to start showing an interest in me, I'd be eager to talk to him, and happily cherish every moment we chatted.
This seems like she is shy, knows you're interested, and is unsure how to say, "I'm sorry, you seem like a great guy, but you're just not what I am looking for."
I'm definitely shy...but I don't do that. If I really like someone, then I'd try to talk to and make friends with that person without making it too obvious that I like him. If I see that he's not talking to me only out of politeness, then I might try making it a bit more obvious. As far as I know, shy girls aren't mean to boys they like.
yup, but then we wish we could of been a little nicer lol
when a girl acts like this, assume she doesn't like you and move on to another. even if she did like you which it truthfully doesn't sound like, she shouldnt be playing games
yeah. sorry. we usually always feel like jerks after.
yeah most times shy girls just seem rude but maybe she likes you.
YEAH! :< We can't help it. Too baaad. :<
Yeah. We can't help it :(
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