Why do I miss men who used and hurt me more than good men?

[TheLovelyWoman]

I have always like and miss men who forced, used, and tossed me aside more than good and honest men.

[Anonymous]

Because like a lot of women you like instability, you like chaos, drama, trauma. If you don’t have that in your life it’s not normal, something doesn’t feel right. You start to wonder does he even care about me. He doesn’t act out the way past relationships used to do w me so you’re questioning whether that’s normal or is there something wrong.

[Bricealan]

@thelovelywoman well that is a problem for you to work out with a therapist. Something a little wrong with that, maybe more than a little wrong. If you figure it out, maybe your life will get better.

[FreyaRed]

Probably you are fascinated by their negative traits. In brief you have soul of a thug and they are thugs, so your equals.

[choco-latte]

Because you’re insecure and their rejection hurt you more than losing them. In other words, you don’t really care about them as people.

[whosnumber_1]

Because you are filling a void with promiscuity and men that treat you like a toilet check off the box of shame and emptiness of what you feel down feel you deserve

[Anonymous]

Just like your fictional husband/spouse, you've probably never even been with a man. 😂

[Paige2006]

It's more of a challenge

[Bklynbadboy12]

You know why cause women love that bad boys

[Anonymous]

Because you are a woman.

[robocop666]

then go out with them

[Anonymous]

Trauma bond.