3 months no contact?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been in no contact for almost 3 months with a guy I was dating for almost a year now. Whenever he was upset with something I was doing he would ghost and I would always reach out to try to communicate what went wrong. My birthday is in May and instead of celebrating with me or making plans another day he went to his friends sister’s prom send off I didn’t make a big deal about it and went out with my friends and texted him that night asking if he was awake. He texted me the next day and said he was asleep and he would call me later and I said okay and we haven’t spoken since. He lost his grandmother in April and I was there for him, sent flowers to the house, attended the funeral etc. so I feel bad that he’s grieving but I never felt like a priority and it being my birthday made it more clear. I miss him but I won’t be reaching out this time. He wasn’t watching my stories on instagram at first but he has recently started to again.

[SueShe]

He is trying very hard to make you understand that he is no longer interested in you and that you should do the same and forget that relationship. The message could not be clearer and despite the fact that you invested time and emotions to support him during his time where he needed support, he is not returning the favor by attending your birthday.

Clearly, that guy is not worth investing one more day in him because he does not seem to know how to set his priorities in life.

It is time to draw a line over that relationship and start worrying about yourself rather than about him.

[Nikki1989]

The no-contact nonsense is something juvenile people do when they don't want to be civil with each other. The relationship is doomed at that point.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah thats a good thing.. If he wanted you he would communicate, he's not so forget him.

[RachyRach]

You made the right choice here I think

[236color]

It's over, move on.