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why do nice guys get overlooked over and over and over and over again? This isn't something that I think happens, this is something I know happens. This is why I asked the last question about the matrix that women measure a man that want to date against, the real measuring tool. I always hear that women want a guy who is nice, who listens, who is on time, who is reliable, but for some reason, all the guy who I know that are like that are either single or have gotten dumped. The guys who aren't that way are almost always having to clear their schedule for another date they're going on. It is kinda crazy how universal this is. That is until the woman gets older and then finally realizes that stability is more valuable than the thrill of the bad boy.
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You're confusing nice guys with good men.
NICE GUYS are only nice superficially. They are actually needy, sneaky, desperate, insecure liars willing to do anything to get into a woman's panties. They will pretend to be one thing while in reality they something else completely. And the immature rage comes out when their creepy "nice guy" routine doesn't get them what they want. Everything they do is transactional. If they pay for dinner they expect sex. No woman wants a man baby to take care of / put up with. They finish last because they deserve to finish last.
GOOD MEN are chill, calm and steady. They are not transactional. They are dependable in good times and the worst of times. They live in the real world. They like romance and sex but they don't let it rule their life. They have some self respect and boundaries. Most women want a good man. GOOD MEN finish ahead of NICE GUYS because they are better men.
This might as well get a superb opinion because this couldn't be any more spot on.
Nice guys have to keep reminding us they are nice because they feel they are owed something unlike good men who are just good because that's just who they are, just as OVP said.
Wrong. Being nice is not what makes a male finish last. Being desperate, feminine, and/or manipulative is what makes a male finish last. Plenty of nice, good men are married or dating. All the ones that I know that are my age and want to be married, are married. The younger ones in their early twenties who want to date, are all dating.
Lol, your source has said the following; "women have to be the nastiest, sluttiest version of themselves in order to secure a man".
Good icon to follow.
Just saw his source. Hilarious!
@Nikki1989 of course you would say that, because you don't have anything credible to counter it. so you say it's hilarious. he has years and years of research and you, you have, it's hilarious.
They don't. This is immature nonsense men peddle when they constantly fail at forging relationships. They blame everything else... but never themselves.
Just read your source, pathetic!
Some men will believe anything.
again, you have, pathetic, but absolutely no backing for your counter, and only say things to insult, just like I would suspect. He has years of research and you have nothing but to say, men not being able to do the thing that they claim that women are not giving them help with. proving his point, only
Nasty guys finish last just as often. They just don't spend their lives bitching about how they always finish last.
super nasty guys, yes, blatantly being a shithead, no one likes. it's about the whole bad persona is what I'm saying, certain traits, subtle but the same traits they fall for over and over.
From my experiences. Women mostly wants guys over 6 ft tall, charming and who can drive for them.
Source?
psychehacks youtube
the psychologist's name is Orion Taraban
and my own personal experience, talking with a lot of women face to face and a lot of men.
obviously a rule isn't a perfect metric, it's a rule, just like i goes before e. Not always