Why do the guys I meet avoid real public dates with me?

[Sugar100]

When I’m in my car I usually see guys riding in the car with a guy friend. I rarely see them at public places. If I see a guy at the store or market they are with a girlfriend and baby or wife.

i never met a guy that wants go on dates. They just want eat in the car and talk in the car and take you to his house but avoid go to public places. I haven’t gone in a date in 3 years.

[NoDecision]

Maybe those guys you are talking about are already in relationships and are just looking for some extra sugar out of a little side action? I suggest you stop looking at what everyone else is doing and pay more attention to yourself and what you are doing. When your eyes are looking out the back of your head you won't see what is right in front of you.

[Sugar100]

So all guys r taken? I’m the only person in the planet that’s single? 😔

[NoDecision]

I didn't say that. Sometimes you will find what you seek when you are not actively looking for it.

[Sugar100]

I’m. Not looking. I’m just saying something I noticed. At an old job I was at , boys would look away cocky then if I don’t look at them they look at me with weird face thinking I’m cocky or shy cuz I’m not looking at them back. lol I do that cuz I either. Not like them or already have someone I like but I’m still alone 24/7 so seems like I never have anyone.

[Sugar100]

I’m not looking for guys. I’m just saying it’s annoying now they act like that. I already have someone but we aren’t talking rn and I pray he comes back to me

[Lesbologist]

Ah... like a fat chick. She's fat and I might let her touch my penis, but I don't want my friends, family, or even strangers know that I'd actually bang her.

So you fat?

Beyond that, chicks that only really offer pussy get used for what they're good for and then dropped off.

Just because we want to fuck doesn't mean you're worth shit beyond that.

[Anonymous]

people generally don't meet random strangers on the street or at stores anyway


like why would some guy come up to you while you're sitting in your car and be like "hey wanna get to know each other?" 😂 that'd be kinda creepy right? try more social settings. most people already meet their partner in college or somewhere like that and it gets harder after that.

[Alex-Snow]

You have not met the right guy yet. A guy should be happy to date you and be in public. How have things gone with previous boyfriends?

[Sugar100]

I not really count past guys as bfs. Only when I was 18 I dated a guy that was 24 and we dated til I was 25 and i broke up with him at 25. But it was on and off and I thought he was my boyfriend but in his head he told everyone he’s single. He used me. But he was only guy that dated me in the last year wen I was 24 weekly , texted daily, but he would deny meet family as he had an ex girlfriend that still visited his mom and sister at home and a girl best fiend of 7 years he would sometimes meet for date same time as me

[Sugar100]

But he was only guy I actually dated but it took years for it be weekly. Rarely met 2x a wk even tho he lived 3min away from me.

[Sugar100]

After that I cudnt meet a right guy 😞 I liked a guy but we cudnt exchange numbers and lost contact , then I got fired and was depressed isolated at home. Then I return to job and I like a guy but he never texted my number said he was gay but still show interest in me but avoid talk of his life. Nothing serious. But there were many gay men at that job. Then I met few random dating app men but it was just talk in car as they lie we were going to a date and wanted sex only so I reject them.
I didn’t like them much anyways.

Then I fell in love had strong chemistry with a recent guy but we aren’t talking a month now as something happened but I can’t say

[Sugar100]

When I buy my house in 2 years my boyfriend can live for free in my house he just need be my boyfriend loyal and meet each other’s families.

No guy feel he won lottery having sex daily in an elegant big house for free going on trips with me all year. No one is eager have this life with a short skinny blonde / brown hair girl

[slatyb]

You need to expand your dating pool. Find activities that attract a more serious group of men.

[onmyradar]

you're getting with the wrong guys, they're probably involved. I'm ready to be seen with you.

[jaksone2]

Maybe they’re just not looking for anything serious

[Paige2006]

Because they have a girlfriend or wife

[wkhan_87]

Hmm something suspected