Why do guys never approach me at frat parties or anywhere else?

[Anonymous]

I've never had a boyfriend and no guys have ever approached me at parties, even though my friends do when I'm around. Last night, I was talking to a friend and a guy came over and only talked to her. I've had many crushes before and I have confessed my love to 2 guys, but I've always been rejected.
Girls worse looking than me get hit on and I really don't know what I'm doing wrong. Maybe I'm overestimating my looks? (My friends always call me hot and super cute, but its hard to believe them when this kind of shit happens).
I am a pretty introverted person, so maybe thats a factor. Anyways, can someone tell me why this is happening or how I can improve my situation?

[ToddyWoddy]

Some hot girls look very unapproachable. The best trick/secret is to get into novelty Tees. I talked an awkward friend of mine to buy a Zelda shirt and now she gets comments from guys with the same interests. Open that connection, band shirts, something. It doesn't have to be a shirt though. Express yourself some way, it'll give the guy something to talk about.

[japhet97]

I've been guilty of this, but you can tell whether someone wants to mingle or not. Body language, eye direction, and even using your phone determines whether a guy should approach you or not. by the way, he has 0 obligation to approach you. If you like what you see, there's nothing wrong with taking initiative. Men very much appreciate that as well.

[ChronicThinker]

You either don't put enough effort into your appearance, you aren't as hot as you think (aren't we all?) or your introverted behaviour is reading as though you're not interested in being approached.

[frndlee]

Just don't underestimate yourself. Your prince Charming will come but you have to be ready, not only physically but mentally to accept him.😊
Try going out of your comfort zones and talk to new people.

I hope that helps. Well, if you are introvert then how do you get to socialize.😂

[Anonymous]

I don't know how much it applies to other people, but for myself I don't approach people because I'm actually pretty happy with my life as a single person. I don't want to actively look to be with someone just to not be alone, and so my stance is basically "if it's meant to be", so I don't bother with any of that.

I'm probably the odd one out here, but approaching someone at a party just isn't something I'm interested in.

[GreenGold1992]

You poor thing, I'm so sorry, that's not very fair for you.
Best advice I could is trying talking and smiling more.
And If I could I would date you out on a date, treat you to dinner, and show you a good time to make you feel better and build your confidence.

[spartan55]

Assuming you are at least decent looking you must giving some real negative body language off. Also, it's not the guys responsibility to talk to you first. Jump in and start talking, show your personality.

[dizmuhjam]

Dont be looking at your smartphone all evening. That shit makes you unapproachable as hell.. be outgoing and look open for a conversation (yes. even when you're introverted, you can look like that, I must know, I am introverted too)

[Bassboy211]

Not sure why if you are an attractive girl but when someone comes and talks to your friend only you should fine a way to jump in the conversation and just make yourself a good time.

[outside_Toronto]

Its all about the vibe you give off. Introversion isn't a factor; lots of people are introverts and get approached

[Charleslvajr]

Approachable? Do you act or look approachable? Very simple.

[lalalala24]

Can't lift you can't love you write down your weight on paper then subtract 25 if your not that number than your not trying hard enough

[Anonymous]

It probably has something to do with how you present yourself, nobody approaches me because I have an extremely cold exterior and body language that makes me look intimidating

[Kesler]

My thoughts are that you most likely look good and most guys would think your already taken

[abhi199419]

U can try me 😂😂will u be my girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Be glad as a girl you don't have to be the Hunter