Why do the only guys who approach me already have partners?

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Finchie40 · Answer

The same reason taken girls’ approach me or other men , The reason behind it is, because a lot of people get into relationships for the wrong reasons , thinking they met someone that is absolutely amazing to them , to eventually realize they aren’t really that amazing to them. A lot of people rush into relationships with someone without seeing the big picture first, they just assume they met someone that is absolutely amazing to them and on the same page as them , when really it’s just infatuation that drew them together in the first place , infatuation is usually attraction based off of looks over anything else , when 2 people are attracted to each other , they usually overlook what is really important to them , and all of a sudden they think the person they met , fits everything they desired , so no matter what that person says or does , is amazing to them. basically liking things they never really cared for before , basically appeasing each other thinking this is something new and exciting that they never experienced with someone before. Overlooking what actually really matters to them. Why people should not rush into relationships with anyone , it takes time to really get to know someone and to see their true colors. But a lot of people overlook it , thinking they met someone amazing. So they end up rushing into a relationship with each other rushing into bed with each other thinking things are great between them , especially in the beginning and maybe for some time, things seem great between them , but eventually one of them realizes this isn’t what they really wanted , once they see their partners’ true colors , So they start distancing themselves from their partner thinking they are missing out on things that they really cared about in the first place , and start blaming their partner for that reason , which could lead them to break up or cheat or have an affair with someone else that seems better than their current partner. I have witnessed and experienced this plenty of times as to why I no longer rush into relationships with girls’ because every girl I rushed into a relationship with , ended up breaking my heart or each others’ hearts. Also a lot of people lie about things , hoping to get the other person’s interest to fall for them , which is so stupid to do. Because no relationship will survive based off of lies , especially when the truth eventually shines. Why people should be honest with each other if they want a happy healthy relationship with each other. But a lot of people are selfish and only think about what they feel is best for themselves , without factoring in their partners’ feelings. So eventually when the truth comes out , that’s when relationships turn to shit and they end up not caring for each other anymore. So the guy or girl will start looking elsewhere. Hoping to find someone that wants them without their partner knowing. I have been the other guy plenty of times with taken and married girls’ ’ that I didn’t know were taken or married , because they told me they were single when really they weren’t. I also had taken girls’ that were honest that she was taken but no longer happy in her relationship or marriage that wanted to be with me instead. I always joke to friends’ and acquaintances that I am a taken girl magnet because i experienced it so many times as to why I no longer rush into a relationship with a girl. Because unfortunately a lot of them lie. We live in a world filled with selfish people , no relationship will last if the both of you can’t remove selfishness for each other. Why I hate selfish people with a passion. Don’t get into a relationship with someone that you can’t be on the same exact page with and honest with , and also , what you don’t want your partner doing to you , needs to be the same rules for you as well , not the other way around , if you want to have sex with multiple people and continue being selfish , stay single. Don’t fuck with peoples’ hearts period. Be honest about what you want and don’t sugarcoat shit. So many marriages and relationships end mainly because of this reason. If you want to experience true love with someone , remove selfishness and give to them the same way you want to receive in return , not the other way around period. So don’t be surprised when you encounter taken men , because I guarantee you will experience this again with other guys’ because there are so many marriages and relationships that are together for the wrong reasons. Why so many divorces and break ups. are occurring these days

SueShe · Answer

There is no specific reason why a woman would be approached by a specific group of people. It just happens that you are the victim of those men that are married or have partners and that seek to cheat on those partners.

Perhaps that there is something in your behavior, the way you present yourself or that you talk and communicate that attracts those potential cheaters.

Have you ever asked them why they target you specifically. I would say that those desperate men not only approach you but anyone that gives the vibe that they can fornicate with and that will not give them too much problems or will not ask any questions.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Married men are, generally speaking, the biggest cheaters of all. If they are not cheating, they are flirting like crazy.

Staximus · Answer

The first thing you should find out about a guy before you waste any time on him is if he’s in a relationship or not. If you’re choosing poorly and falling into the same trap then it’s time to change how you choose guys to interact with

Smileygirl2000 · Answer

Bad luck lol. These aren't good men and usually when you KEEP attracting no good men it's because they're preying on you. Not in a good way. These men can sniff out desperate insecure women from a mile away. These types are predators becareful

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Most single men have given up. Because of the very common trend from women in the modern day

glennos89 · Answer

Probably because they are good in flirting with girls. Many guys are shy or bad at flirting and therefore those guys are often single because almost no girls make the first move on them

queenofcardio · Answer

There's something lacking in their relationships so their looking for a distraction.  You probably seem fun 🤷‍♀️

FreyaRed · Answer

They have the feel it's time for a change. Its different when you're the "femme fatale" type, they avoid you mostly.

FrodoVader007 · Answer

Im sorry 🙁  Some people don't care about hurting others

sage2021 · Answer

He sounds like the way romantic scammers love bomb their victims.

NoDecision · Answer

They are obviously looking for a side hustle.

Kenkebuttery · Answer

Tbh. If it happens a lot. There is something they see in you. That gives them the opinion you will be ok with that

Levin · Answer

Pretty sure it's cause you attracted him and humoured him.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

This happened with what - two, three men of 4,1+ billion men? You should be fine.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a coincidence. Some good guy who aren't taken will come to you too. Stay away from these ones though... at least you know they are taken and they're not lying

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Thats a good question. What are you doing to attract them?

Anonymous · Answer

Because they clearly don't fear the legal repercussions of approaching

msc545 · Answer

Seems like a lot of men want you. What are you complaining about?

In_Trance · Answer

How is your relationship with your Father?

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t know why ignore them

Anonymous · Answer

That seems like something very rare.

LotharioENERZY · Answer

bad luck!

832loverboy73 · Answer

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