Signs a guy is a player?

[Anonymous]

How can you tell if a guy is a player?

If he's a guy genuinely interested, or a player? The guy I like flirts with me quite a lot. i.e. looking deep into my eyes with a slight smile. He talks in a softer tone. Are there any signs that he's a player? I don't see him much, so I can't tell if he flirts with many other women.

[Anonymous]

Brrrt all ''playas'' are really quite good at the game, the smiles, texts, walks and whatever bullsh*t they can manage to come up with.

Confident? playah

not confident? Possible playa being smart

either way a playah wants one thing, another notch on his belt...

to be sure?

make him wait.. and I mean really strees it out! if he's not then hell wait if he is hell make up any escuse to divide your legs,

say things like

''oh its me isn't it you don't find me attractive enough to have sex''

its to small isn't it

they will worm theyre way in by saying or doing anything!

but chin up I'm sure there is bunch of decent men out there... somewhere :)) goodluck

[Anonymous]

If he's got confidence then he's completely fake and a player no doubt.

If he's confident with you and/or with other women then he's most likely been with many women in order to be that confident. whether they rejected him and he learned from it or if he just uses women you will not know.

You will have to get to know him as a person to find out if he's really into you or just spreading his net and seeing what he can catch.

A guy that's worth it treats his friends like gold and will want to get to know you personally instead of in the sack.

[Anonymous]

One of the biggest signs is attention. How much attention does he give you. If its more than adequate attention than that is not a really player thing to do. More players tend to try and be louder attention getting. Don't get me wrong a lot of people with try and get attention but players will try and build themselves up with others around them. Always trying to impress, demean others around them. If he is not afraid to point out his insecurities around you that is also a good sign that he is not a player.

[Green_Clarinet_Man]

I can't add to that

[Opinion Owner]

Haha thanks

[Anonymous]

yeah I agree with the other guys if your not showing interest players tend to disapear and find a girl who gives them the attention. it is hard to tell at times unless you see him with other girls