Guys who gossip... the biggest turn-off there is?

[saragigli]

I'm not referring to bantering,

I'm talking about the type of gossiping

that often turns into badmouthing,

which some girls seem to enjoy so much.

As in: making insinuations or spreading rumors,

making comments about how others look or what they say

(when they're not present obviously!).

How many of you guys do that?

And how many of you girls find it a turn-off?

I personally think it's the worst thing

when you see an heterosexual male

who acts like a little bitch.

[Aizou]

when I'm with my friends we sometimes talk about girls we like and how they look

and such, but I got more girl friends than guy friends I think..

i just prefer hanging out with girls more than guys I guess..

(someone will probably make assumptions here..)

[yopyopyop]

Yeah, it's a turn-off. That's why I always do that kind of jerkish comments in the presence of the person. I don't like her anyway so ;)

[toulouse]

most guys I know, do that. they do it so casually, they don't think of it as gossip. but actually guys are bigger gossips then girls. they don't do it to be mean, per se, they just do it naturally, & it usually is mean, by default.

[shygirl12]

its a turn off... cause then I always picture and imagine all the horrible things that they might be saying about me :/