I really like a guy who has a girlfriend... is that so wrong?

Anonymous
Ok so I just started working with a guy who I'm really attracted to and who really gets on with me. It's not just sexual, as we got to know each other as work mates so know that we have really similar personalities as well. Only issue is that he has a steady girlfriend. People at work are joking that we like each other, but obviously I deny it straight up. We're going out next week as our mate is having his 21st birthday, and he's said that he's coming to mine, alone, for pre-drinks. Is this really so wrong? I fancy the guy so much, but he has a girlfriend... He flirts with me even though the suggestion that I may like him, and he said that he wants to come to mine. He's a really nice guy, honestly not a player. And I know my players! Is it honestly a bad idea to chat to someone with a girlfriend who you fancy? I mean, is it not his decision whether he likes her enough? Am I really the bad guy?

Please no judgmental answers, I'm an innocent party, would never pull a taken guy...
I really like a guy who has a girlfriend... is that so wrong?
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