I want to beat up my girlfriend's ex boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

he was a creep and liar. he manipulated her to do what he wanted. he hasn't been punished for it. I want to beat the crap out of this little sh*t. he used her. and she's the sweetest girl I've ever met but she starts crying sometimes when we have sex or talk about it. should I beat the living crap out of this little sh*t?

[Shlei3]

No you should not beat the living crap out of this guy. Why? Sorry this may sound harsh but she has her part in it as well. At some point in life you have got to learn to stand up for yourself and know the difference between a manipulator and a genuine person. This is between him and her not you. She has learned a lesson the hard way. Is it right? No. Is it fair? Not always. What's done is done. If you really want to help her guide her to see the warning signs so she doesn't fall in this trap again.

[Reeses-pieces777]

the best thing you can do is provide comfort and emotional support for your girlfriend. that will definitely make her more stable and stop crying. and if what her ex boyfriend did was anything near or is a criminal offense, she could file him up at the police for it; I mean, she's still really messed up about it so it must have been something serious. also see if she needs counselling. but that's the best you can do, protect her and take care of her.

[Reeses-pieces777]

Thank you for best answer. I do believe that not being violent about it is the best way to go about this situation to make it less chaotic.s he's already suffered enough emotional and physical ramifications from this bad past relationship.

[falafelany1]

No. You definitely shouldn't. You should just tell her that what he did was wrong and she deserves better. If you can keep the promise, promise to never do that to her.

[Comebackkid87]

Bruh, you are her rebound. She is still in love with the manipulator. She cries about him after having sex with you? You should have bounced the first time this happen, not be her rebound. Don't fall for this chick, get out and move on accordingly.

She still has strong feels and gina tingles for that guy.

[coolguy93939]

why are you going to get

involved in something

that you had NOTHING

to do with, and its over?

[pinkit3232]

I know the others are saying stay out of it buuuuut, I've ben in her position before and you don' realize all the manipulation and lies unil your out of the bad relationship looking back. I def don't think you should go beat him up. BUT, I think if your ever see him (that doesn't mean go looking for him), you should totally SCARE the sh*t out of him. Why? Because chances are he would do it again to some other girl. That's my opinion and I understand not everyones gonna agree.

[Anonymous]

What exactly happened? In what way did he manipulate het?