its the way we are raised, back when people had morals and respect. I have always been the good boy because i dont get my energy from treating people poorly. Eventually women learn to stay away from bad boys and we get the women when they have fixed their issues and know what they want. I sometimes ask myself this and do act a jerk just to see if it works and good lord it does but thats not me, thats being fake and its something i cannot do. Many times i have dug into a girl and she eats it up and i was like what the hell. Then i be nice to her and she stops talking to me. Everyone is different though
I'm a nice person that's why! Its who I am and I'm not changing that! Nice guys can be funny too and tolerant of other peoples feelings, just have to know the people that can take jokes and those who can't! As for cocky jerk, yea that just isn't me and don't want it to be, I'll hold my own through proving what I can do by my actions, not words.
most nice guys are manipulative jerks tbh, they are fake and pretend to be nice only to get into a girls pants then as soon as she rejects him for other reasons or because she can tell he's not a genuinely nice guy he bitches about women.
That's the problem. Women do go for nice guys but there is much more about them than just being nice. The problem isn't that those guys are "nice", it's usually something else.
guy can be nice and at the same time be outgoing, fun, attractive etc... Doesn't have to be bad boy to get a girl, many girls don't like that.
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You display the typical lack of understanding when it comes to this topic.
It's not being a manipulative jerk or a cocky funny bad boy which gets success. Not that you'll ever understand that, apparently.
Your personality isn't something you can change from Nice guy to Badboy that easily most people can't. Besides once the stupid girls go for the bad guys only the good girls are left.
Because a lot of girls go for nice guys, it has it's benefits for LONG TERM relationships. Not just flings.
Because boys are raised to be.
What's a "nice guy" in this context?
Evolution is a slow process.
Never go full retard
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