Polls: Guy's Behavior

I've been in 3 failed long term relationships. In the 1st one he was always trying to make me feel less attractive and smart than I actually am, while obsessing about me and being jealous of everyone. In the 2nd he just lived on my income and lied about his income (while saving a lot of money). 3rd and last one he didn't want to make any sacrifice for me... I got him his current job through my boss (my boss didn't want to loose me); I'm changing jobs (other country) and new employer also offered to help him find a job; reply "I don't need your help!". A wise woman told me that all of this happened because I am successful and too intelligent, and man can't handle women that are more successful than them. Is that true?

I was with a friend this day. We went inside the sushi restaurant.

And we went to cashier and there was the Asian man in his 25-32s staring at me. We ate sushi and then he came back to pick up our plates, drinks. He stared again.

Is it because I wore a t-shirt with Japanese text on and he was thinking I’m sure some weeabo obsessing over his culture or he just finds me weird because I’m a white emo kid? He didn’t even stare at my friend. He kept making eye contact? What’s up with Asians? Do Asians actually stare at European/white people everytime? What do they think about us European people? I’d you’re Asian please answer this.

Do you have any clue?

I mean butt/tighs like that.

This guy went from looking average, maybe even unattractive with plucked eyebrows


To a man I would love to have babies with (with natural eyebrows)


I think eyebrow plucking is one of the worst thing a man can do in terms of attractiveness (unless he has a unibrow).

I myself love cuddles and hugs because it makes me feel loved.

Yes I know everyone body is different and the best way to get a bikini body is to just put on a bikini but I'm curious about everyone opinions of what exactly is "the perfect bikini body"

The guy I'm seeing is dealing with a loved one being diagnosed terminally, throwing him off in every way (previous post). Here's where things are now:

-I was the one who was initiating more convos since the news

-He asked me what I was doing the one night and when I answered with my non-important plans, he didn't follow up

-Turned out his friend had an extra concert ticket and he thought my response meant I was unavailable

-After giving him a (joking) hard time on the phone for missing out on the concert, I texted him after saying he should come over to make up for it

-No answer all night

-Next day I came across a relevant quote on IG, sent it to him and asked if we were ok

-He responded with paragraphs saying that this is why he tried to end things initially because he knows the state he's in is unfair to me, he doesn't have much he can give right now, but that yes in his mind we're good, he still cares about, enjoys, and appreciates me, he just hasn't reached any clarity in terms of what he wants in a relationship

-I apologized for possibly being too much in my attempts to be there for him, told him he knows where I stand but I'm going to be giving him more space

-He answered hours later saying "Don't worry about giving me too much or too little space, try not to worry about me at all, I'm doing what I'm doing and I don't want to have to feel apologetic about it. Right now my focus is me, it's selfish but it has to be. Work is demanding, my goals are close at hand, and I don't want my life to feel complicated"

-To which I simply replied "Aye aye captain" because that, to me, screamed that he needed space

-He continued with the convo as usual, asking how my day was

Since then he's been the one to initiate more convos again, seems more present, and after sending me a song in the morning, joking around as usual, then not talking for half the day yesterday, I get a goodnight text before bed. Could my attempt to give him space really be prompting this?

Do guys find abs on women attractive? I don't mean like crazy ripped though. Like below.

I just started talking to a dude and he hardly has any points on Snapchat so when he asked for mine And snapped me, I was excited. We went on a date already too. But then over the weekend he deleted his Snapchat. I thought he deleted me but he reappeared on Monday. Now I'm thinking, since I heard a girl say she deleted her Snapchat because of a guy, that maybe he deleted his because of a girl, so he wouldn't see her activity since he likes her a lot or something. Could this be or are there other things?

Guys who like us transgender girls are surprisingly common :) I wish more guys who like transgender girls wouldn't be scared of dating us because it can be super lonely especially in high school when all your friends have boyfriends but not you :p