Distance and sexting?

[Maryidk]

So I'm talking with this guy 2 years.. we've so much in common, we laugh, we share our thoughts but he's leave 7 hours away.. So after 1 month that was clearly that we like each other we did sexting.. and then we did that every night.. after 8 months and after we had a fight because he was too much "demanding" we opened up to each other.. I told him that I want more than this and he told me that he couldn't give me that but he didn't want to lose me because I was his company in every way and he likes more to chat with me than go out with he's friends and that I've fucked he's mind.. after this he was started slowly to being totally cold and we either fight all the time because he was jealous or either have sexting.. we ended up not talking for months and then he text me that he misses me and we get back to together but he was in he's own world and we ended up fighting AGAIN. We talk again but it was really awkward because we had say a lot of bad things to each other. We meet but I told him not to do smthing because we ended up by this way aaaand I regretted but it was too late. He told me that I was beautiful and that if I was there he will never let me go but after that we didn't speak so much and after 3 months I went to he's town and he didn't want to see me.. I was so sad and I blocked him from everywhere. Now 4 months later he text me sms hahaha and we talk AAAAGAIN but when I went the conversation to sexting to see if he still likes me he turned me off. Like WTF I CAN UNDERSTAND THIS PERSON AND WHAT HE WANT FROM ME NOW

Don't answer to him again

Don't give up

[SanctusCain]

Sounds like you are his backup whenever he can't get what he wants from someone else he goes back to you and that's shitty

[Maryidk]

Yeah but after a while I didn't give him anything and he was still text me all day and told me that he don't want anyone else than me but he can't have me so he compromise with other girls in the sexual part

[SanctusCain]

Aka you are second choice if he goes that long before talking to u it prob means he was in a relationship and is using u until he gets another one and don't believe everything a guy says

[Maryidk]

He doesn't want a relationship because he have trust issues from he's ex who cheated on him

[Maryidk]

I sound so stupid hahaha

[SanctusCain]

Yup he dosnt deserve you you deserve someone else who actually likes you and won't leave u or stop talking to u

[Maryidk]

Well actually I was the one who stop talking to him because he is se rude when he gets mad.. I mean I told him I'm going to send him in 10 min and I send him in 15 and he was like "what did you do?" "You're with someone else" "you're garbage" and yeah.. He seems so attached to me all these time :/ even when I was cold and barely answer to him he was trying I don't know..

[monkiii]

Your significant other shouldn't cause a lot of stress and confusion

[Maryidk]

Well all these years this is the only thing he's doing.. we speak and I'm waiting for the next time to fight lol hah

[monkiii]

Then just leave him it's not worth it

[Maryidk]

I guess.. but I find myself missing him.. we talked every day all day, he was part of my everyday routine

[monkiii]

Yea ofc it will be hard but in the long run you will feel better

[Maryidk]

Every time I move on he text me , this time I blocked him from everywhere and he send sms and I can't stop myself from replying

[monkiii]

When you see the message delete it right away without thinking and move on with your day

[Maryidk]

I'll try.. thank you :)

[monkiii]

You can do it! Don t worry

[Anonymous]

Don't answer