My boyfriend doe sexting and talks sexual stuff almost every time that we talk. It's like our convo is all about sex and stuff. What does it indicate?

[Sushi2405]

He and I started long-distance a month ago. We both know each other since childhood. So now that we are dating he's mostly talking about sex. We do sexting most of the time, like we are talking normally but he'll turn the talk the other way every time. I mean I don't hate it I just follow it but I just wanna know what is it, why is it... is it wrong or right? he's not a playboy I know that he loves me and he's a good person.

[Finchie40]

Because he is a guy , Sex is important to most us men , what most you girls don’t understand or realize is that sex is a way that we express our feelings and emotions to a girl that we value and appreciate , it’s our way of being closer to her to show we appreciate her and want her to be by our side. Most girls don’t think sex is that big of a deal but to a guy it is , We don’t want to be in a relationship with a girl that doesn’t love sex When a girl starts withholding sex and affection and is barely in the mood , a guy feels she doesn’t value him , he will start to think she is losing interest in him and think that she might be getting it from someone else. Which could push him to leave her or cheat on her , Most relationships end because the sexual compatibility fades away , Why sex is important in a relationship A guy doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a girl just to be his room mate he wants a girl that wants him the same way he wants her , so if sex is an issue for you then you and your boyfriend probably won’t make it for. The long haul , Most the girls I got into a relationship with the sex between us was never an issue , but as time went on she started to not want sex as much as she use to before , she would start using sex as a weapon , basically her way to manipulate me to get her way , when that starts to happen in a relationship that relationship is doomed , I will not stay in a relationship with a girl that uses sex as a weapon , I will leave her or meet someone else that wants me like I want her , for a relationship to survive it has to go both ways or it won’t work

[Sushi2405]

Love you man. I think this is all I wanted to hear. Thank you soo much

[Finchie40]

No problem , the only time a girl should worry that her man might be up to no good is if he isn’t initiating intimacy and affection like he use to , that’s usually a red flag that he is more than likely up to no good , when he starts demanding space from her and making constant excuses as to why he isn’t in the mood , most guys are always in the mood especially when they value and appreciate and love a girl that he gives his heart to

[BoobSlayer]

When you mention conversation about sex and all the other naughty fun, it fills me with intense desire for melons, honkers, boobies, tits, melons, chesticles, honkers, bazoombas - I'm reminded of just how beautiful and amazing the female body is, and I can't help but feel a rush of passion. I want to taste the most exquisite melons, honk the most plump honkers, squeeze voluptuous boobies, and admire gorgeous tits, the most curvaceous chesticles, the most perfect honkers, and breathtaking bazoombas.

[SphynxUK]

Long distance? Have you met at all? I’m
Assuming you must have it else how else are you in a relationship?
Essentially he is telling you what you want to hear so you sext. Next will be photos and then video chat. He will be nice to you until he gets what he wants.
This isn’t a relationship so I would end it before you get played. Find someone nearby you meet and get to know in person.

[Anonymous]

He is a child, not a man. He has a lot of growing up to do.

[OlderAndWiser]

You started a long distance relationship one month ago. If you think you are already at the stage where you love each other, you need to reevaluate everything!

[OlderAndWiser]

It sounds like what he is experiencing is lust, not love.

[Anonymous]

it indicates that he's only with you for the sex or puts sex as a higher priority than your feelings/relationship. it's also disrespectful. so tell him to cut it out or show some respect.

[Opinion Owner]

also note that this is a long distance relationship. it will likely not go to in real life relationship. so he's just getting his jollies off while he still can. don't sext with him. i'm sure it makes you very uncomfortable or annoyed.

[Sushi2405]

Yaa you are right it gets super uncomfortable

[itsalyssaagain]

Men are very sexual and most (if not all) will not stay in a relationship that involves nothing sexual or at least see it happening in the near future. However it really is a turn off when you feel like they don’t care about you but only see you physically. A real man can balance between the two.

[spartan55]

You are doing something you don't want to because he wants to. So, no he's not a good person because he doesn't care how you feel. Long distance never works anyway, so you are wasting your time.

[crossdressingrihno]

He’s not really there for love. He may think he is but it’s really about him wanting to bone.


Find someone else if you want something beyond friends with benefits.

[sheenagwapa]

you can just ask him why... due to distance yoy cannot do sexual stuff together that's why he is so horny but as a Christian i am in no way recommending premarital sex

[therealricksanchez]

Guess he's horny. If you don't like to be that often, don't play along all the time, try to gently switch the tone of the conversation and check if he follows it

[RespectfulGuy]

It indicates that he's a straight, healthy male that is driven by hormones.

He may or may not include love for you.

[Z1pTD]

Honestly for me it's for two reasons. A) because I'm constantly horny and B) because I'm really comfortable with that stuff and lot of my friends aren't, so anybody I know that is comfortable hears a lot more lol

[Anemone978]

Be up front tell him you don't like it that much..

[Anonymous]

Because it's one of the greatest things about having a girlfriend.
My girl rejected me last time I had to have sex with her. She's coming over tonight and if she rejects me again, it's over

[humanearth]

I think it indicates that your LDR is not going to last young

[QuietRunner]

he is horny

and

wants sex with you

[MannMitAntworten]

That he has a normal sex drive…

[In_Trance]

If that's all that happens it means nothing

[Wise4myage]

Sex is all he cares about?

[Sushi2405]

I guess soo

[Wise4myage]

He's making it pretty obvious.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Daddy wants to taste your cherries😋

[anon1903]

@Z1pTD it's your area

[Z1pTD]

Thanks!

[Danny_dan92]

It means he wants pussy

[karekaaaa]

He do masturbate a lot