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Is sexting necessary in a long distance relationship?

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This is a two way street, if you are not comfortable, then don't do it. But you need to compromise as well. So maybe have a sexy conversation over a call. Or send him more sexy pics, they don't need to be nude, you can buy sexy underware and show him what will be waiting for him when he gets back, you need to make it dirty, just sensual. You always need to find middle ground in a relationship.
What's wrong with sexting? What is it that makes you uncomfortable?
Also time is relative. For me 7 weeks is nothing. For a young couple in love, 7 weeks is an eternity. It can be frustrating to be all that time without any kind of sexual contact with eachother.
Would you feel uncomfortable having a conversation with him about sex? Are you able to tell him what you like and don't like?
In person I've talked to him about literally everything sexual, but just doing it virtually to me... It feels so uncomfortable
If you think of sexting as some contrived act then it does indeed seem uncomfortable verging on lame.
"Right, let's sext now. We'll discuss a scenario and both touch ourselves. Go...".
If, however, you're just having a conversation about sex, about your real life desires and fantasies that isn't a roleplay, and you happen to get aroused, that's something organic. It's not contrived and it doesn't force you to create some virtual scenario like shitty amateur actors.
You're right.. guess I have to find a way to change my perspective on this and try it out, thank you!
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7 weeks is not that long, but if there's anyone you should be able to sext with, it's him.
I know it's awkward, but it doesn't have to be perfect. Try your best, it's one of those things you need to practice.
Why you have to send any pictures at all why can't you just talk dirty to one another?
Only do what you're comfortable with
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