I like it. I had a massive crush on this awkward guy for months. Some things he did made me believe that he might have Aspergers as well as just an awkward personality. I flirted and flattered him for months. Even went out on a few dates. But he didn’t meet my expectations, as in taking days to respond to texts and flaking on me, despite being attentive on dates. My friends talked me into giving up after he stopped texting back for a couple of weeks. Awkward is fine when you have other qualities. Just recognize that you’re awkward and be up front with the girl about any limitations you might have so that she can be secure in the relationship. No one wants to feel like their partner doesn’t like them.
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I have always been attracted to a more "geeky" type of guy. In my experience it's the guys who are shy and quiet who pay more attention to thier woman. They pay attention to her wants and needs. Guys with more confidence and arrogance tend to think only about themselves and aren't very sympathetic. Just my two cents and how I see it.
I do not mind shy guys, but the one thing that would worry me is that theyre not surrounded by "guy friends" or not as much. So they would come off as clingy to you. Or would have better time looking for female friends while in a relationship and it never goes well.
It comes down to the girl and level of maturity. Premature Judgement yes they are a turn off but look past the awkwardness and shyness and they are not a turn off. It also comes down to how far people want to go and if they want to judge the book by the cover or read the book itself.
Maybe I am wrong, but I think most women aren't so judgmental as to discount shy or socially awkward guys, but the issue always comes down to how the conversation will start, how the conversation flows (or eventually flows) and if the guy is attractive to her.
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I don't like friendly guys at all, I don't know why but I want a shy guy so I could break him out of that shell
Personally I need a person who is confident n not shy to interact. So shy guys are not my thing
I have dated a shy guy but i do not want very shy guy again to date and prefer date short guy i ok guys is little shy but not to much.
I don't like extra shy ones... I like a mix of shyness and courage
i went out with a bunch of Japanese guy for party.
they call themselves "shy"
they definitely use a different dictionary than we on the west cos they everything but shy lol 😂 they might feel it inside but if you don't know them, you won't notice it at all.
so, my answer at your question: define the awkward & shy 😁 i guess it varies by culture n people.
my turn off is simple: boring n rude peopleI’m general I have no problem with it. However, it will make dating harder if it impacts his ability to communicate or show interest in a partner. As long as he is able to participate in the normal social cues, it’ll be fine.
No not at all. Just be yourself. That’s the only thing you can be. If you are afraid to go for a girl you have your eye on don’t be. They might be afraid too. Just go for it!
More often than not they're a turn off no matter what any woman says. The good news is that you can work on your confidence - I did.
I honestly don't care how socially awkward and shy they are. I feel like a lot of people are like that in the beginning. It's all about how I connect with them after :)
Not a turn off, but I do prefer someone who is more confident
I am a geek and socially awkward and if I turn people off, they're not the right people. So no :-)
For me personally, yes. They’re not my types but I don’t hate them nor treat them any less polite than I would with anybody else. I just don’t date them.
I don't consider myself shy but i am introverted and reserved. In my experience so far nobody has liked me. Oh freaking well.
I would think that shy guys are perceived by women, the way guys perceive shy women.
I don’t mind it. But our personality’s would clash.
Yes they are to me. I'm very social so I want to be with a man who is the same.
Hell noooo I love shy guys ❤️
It depends on if they're cute...
No. It's cute! 😘
If they’re fine idgaf if they’re shy
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